I cursed him out after he ghosted me, was that stupid of me?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a guy for a couple months and it was going well. We were intimate too. One day I called him bro through text and he stopped talking to me. I was kind and patient and told him that it was by habit and it was only a text. He wouldn’t respond for days. I finally got fed up and just told him how much that hurts and “f him”. I usually keep my composure or I am too forgiving and just let these men do hurtful things and I just brush it off or block them. But this time I just wanted to express my anger, now I feel I lost my power.

[hafajrbehs]

It is not easy for a man to listen "bro" from a woman especially whom he has been dating for months and with whom he intimidated.

After you said him bro, i can definitely say that he thinks that you have friendzoned him and no longer wish to continue it as a relationship but as a friendship and he now looses his interest in you.

Tell me how would you feel if your husband or boyfriend says you "sis"? Is it ok for you to hear it?

[Asker]

No I understand. But I wish he would have just told me. It wasn’t my intentions. I tried to rectify but he just ignored me

[hafajrbehs]

Did you said him "bro" multiple times or single time and after first time when you told him dis he said anything to you such as don't call me bro or anything like that.

If he told you that and you repeated rhe same thing, i have to say that he is right and it's your fault

And if he didn't say anything and simply ignored you than it's his fault.

But i want yoy to contact him one last time if you had some serious connection between you both and tell him the exact same thing I'm writing below:
"Hey ___, i haven't friendzoned you and you are my first priority and always will be and about the habit of saying "bro", it was from long time and it's my slang as i talk with my friends by calling them bro. I got this habit from there and if it bothers you I'll try to not call you as bro"

It's a sample script, customize it according to you.

He will definitely listen to you and if he still continues the same behaviour, just dump him, he's a spoiled brat and Don't deserve you love and attention girl. Just remember that you and your mental peace are more important to you than any person who don't deserve you time, love and care.

And at last, be happy, be strong and enjoy your life.

[UnknownPuppet]

Omg no. If you called with bro and he got offended then he has a problem.