Is it safe to say he just doesn’t care?

[Anonymous]

I recently told him that certain things that had been done & said had made me feel rejected lately & that I just didn’t feel desired or wanted.

and his response was “Ooh I see, well sorry that you feel like that”

Nothing else was said from it, is it just safe to say he doesn’t care?

[ohsheeT]

When growing up most men don't get that type of knowledge they don't see or feel what you're asking or saying so he doesn't really understand even though he does but his level of compassion and passion only goes to where he learned it that's the level he's at if you want to teach somebody something you have to show them because words alone are not going to help him see or feel what you're talking about

[JBlade]

That’s what I’d say if I didn’t care about how someone felt about something. If I did care, I’d like to know why. Wouldn’t guarantee a change in behavior unless I felt it was warranted though but I’d at least try.

[SomewhereElse]

Did he take any action to change his behavior, or ask you what you'd need instead? Or tried to make more of an effort in general afterwards? If the answer is no, then he doesn't care.

[Asker]

It’s literally just happened so I can’t say, but he’s not even asked like what he’s done to make me feel rejected or what he can do. It was literally just that & now I’m feeling even more rejected and like he doesn’t care

[SomewhereElse]

In that case, you could try telling him more specifically what upset you and how you would like to be treated instead / what he should do instead. Then observe what he does for the next 7-14 days, if nothing changes best to move on. Of course it's also worth considering if you want to be with someone who will need to be told very specifically what's bothering you, or if you would prefer to be with someone more caring in the first place.

[In_Trance]

yes it is