So this Indian guy I was talking to for a while said he would never marry me. I asked why and he said it's a big thing for him that the person he marries knows his mother tongue. Being a diaspora, I only speak English due to other factors. I asked him if I tried to learn and if he would consider it. He said no. I asked him what other than the language barrier made him say that. He said I don't know. I told him that I have a past of being branded the "Fun girl" and not being taken seriously and am tired of it and that I'm so angry at him. I told him I'd like to know his reason so I could improve in the future but he said there was nothing else. He constantly apologized but I don't know where to go from here what did I do wrong?
The day my ex boyfriend said ''You're not ready for marriage'' with a mocking tone and then tried to changed the subject to worthless sex talks about his past sexual relationship was the day I found out who he really was (a monster) and it's been nearly a year since he's been blocked permanently.
He's giving you excuses. I'm surprised he's still your boyfriend. Seriously? Do you have any self-esteem, dignity?
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May I ask why are you still with him? You already told you he's never going to marry you, one of the biggest insult and ultimate rejection.
Are you happy being just a girlfriend and getting denied full commitment?
Leave him alone, it is not your fault but no means no in any language... Some cultures only marry in their own culture. Religion has a lot to do with it too and also you would not be able to talk to any of his family that does not speak English. Family also has to do with it as his may have already told him he could not marry outside of his own kind.
It sounds like your personalities just didn't mesh very well.
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you didn't learn his mother tongue
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