My boyfriend says he is really enjoying living with me does that mean he sees me as long term?

[Anonymous]

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He pays rent, makes me lunch for work, buys me gifts and writes me notes for when I get back from work.

[RomanticRealist]

Only he can answer that, my dear. I am puzzled though - I wouldn’t move in with someone until I knew we saw each other as long-term partners. That’s a big step!

I hope it works out for you. Don’t be afraid to communicate your needs and ask him how he see your future together, if he sees your relationship as a long term thing. He could lie, but you have no choice but to trust him and communicate or go insane. :)

[Asker]

He was saying things he wanted to get a dog one day in the future

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. It depends on what his living situation was like before living w you. Maybe he enjoys it cause he gets sex, maybe free food, can sleep in. There could be a lot of reasons. Maybe he doesn’t pay rent. Maybe he doesn’t pay utilities. It’s hard to say w out really knowing him.

[britishbby]

Regardless though, if any of that's true that's how it is and if it stays like that and continues he will stay with her

[Opinion Owner]

@britishbby no it doesn’t. He may get tired of it. He may take interest in another girl who he feels treats him better even if this current girl is treating him good. He may just be using her for the time being till he can find something better in his mind.

[britishbby]

Yeh but that can happen no matter what, at the moment he's looking at a future with her, we're looking at now situation not 2 years later because no one knows, she might lose her legs and he leave cuz of that but currently the dude it thinking about a future

[Opinion Owner]

@britishbby now situation doesn’t mean he wants a future w her. Again could just be using her. Just cause he said he likes living w her isn’t enough info to say yes he sees a future w her.

[britishbby]

Yeh thats true he could be using her u make a good point but we don't know the situation entirely i just assume everything is 50 50 so yeh i wouldn't take what he said as a bad thing tho

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, it sounds like he is thinking about you in the long term.

[JPresidente]

As long as you're sleeping with him and he doesn't get bored.

[britishbby]

Yep, short and simple I'd take it as a yes

[Asker]

I'm so happy with him

[britishbby]

Good it looks like it's both ways 😁

[boggboss]

No they are not counting convos

[boggboss]

Sounds like a good boyfriend

[In_Trance]

did you ask him if he sees it that way?

[Anonymous]

He could be using you for a place to live

[Hanife]

it could be