I don't mind your full honest opinion?

[Anonymous]

There is this chick and she's lesbian. And I tend to go for girls not knowing that they're like that. (No problem right)? But she acts flirty and two years ago, I told her that I liked her and she recommended we stay in friendship (Nice). But now through and through my eyes are on her. I do the half finger heart thing and she completes it. I think she knows I like her anyway... I would like some advice from both POV's (Thanks in advance). Be honest I'm here for it!

[PrettyPriya]

What is the question that you want us to answer? I don't see one. Maybe use the update box to update the question to give users something to answer. I am only going to assume you are trying to ask if you should pursue this girl.

Working on that presumption, no, you should not. If she is lesbian, what makes you think that she wants a relationship with a guy? Do you not understand sexuality? I have a good friend that might chime in and back me up here. @SecretsofKB

If she is lesbian, she only likes girls. Why would she like you or want a romantic relationship with a guy. That makes absolutely zero sense. Then again, I would have figured you'd know this.

Why do you go for girls that like girls. That seems counterproductive and a waste of time. Go for girls that like guys my friend. Much better odds, don't ya think?

Sounds like you have an attraction to lesbians for whatever reason. Perhaps you have some kink you want to fulfill of being with two girls. News flash. Lesbians don't sleep with guys.

[Asker]

I understand, the reason I said that was because I like the colored hair and how they dress. It may seem stupid, but no one that I know dresses like that and they are straight. So yeah, what I'm trying to say is I would like to find someone who dresses like this. But isn't LGBT. You know? I know I'm kind of confusing

[PrettyPriya]

Ah, so you mean you want a certain type of appearance?

[Asker]

Yes that is the whole situation. But I would prefer her. That's it

[PrettyPriya]

Good luck with that if she is a lesbian. I have zero advice because she isn't into guys. The user I tagged is a lesbian. She will tell you the same thing unfortunately.

[Asker]

No problem. Thanks for your input

[SecretsofKB]

I'm here! Late... but I'm here. And like @PrettyPriya said, I'm a lesbian.

So, with being a lesbian, I really don't have any attraction to men in really any way... that's just how it is. I think you need to recognize this as a good friendship and not ruin this.

And as for the whole colored hair and attire thing... pretty presumptuous of you in that area...

But I can guarantee you that there are women out there that "dress like lesbians"...

[JosyJosy]

That's unlucky. You think she knows. So no harm in confirming it by just telling her how you feel. Then you're sure and can move on with your life. But you said she's lesbian, so mentally prepare yourself for the rejection.

[bademoxy]

Good luck, brother with that "friended zone" thing you have going on.
ask yourself why attractive women rarely hang around guys who've "just friended" THEM.
You asked for advice, SO my answer is; avoid wasting resources and time on women for now so you instead improve yourself physically and financially (i. e. STATUS), so attractive women will approach YOU.
physical attraction is THEIR status which is limited to within their YOUTH, meaning time is on your side , though it sucks now while you are younger , having not yet fully developed nor achieved success.
remember , women are valued for what they ARE biologically. Men are valued for what they DO -which is provide resources. Proof? Most ALL the forever single physically attractive white monied career women cry "we can't find a good man" while driving to their office jobs past hundreds of homeless young men standing in front of men's shelters. Feminists don't get more graphically disproven than THAT.

[Sandeeppingping]

Bro I don't see how I'd go through this, maybe joke about hitting on girls with her, or ask her if someone ever made her think "damn I'd turn bi for this mf", shit like that jokingly don't be too serious or whatever, just random ass conversation, you can copy paste what I said but make sure it doesn't come off in a needy way, if she senses your intentions (that you really like her and probably are invested emotionally) she'll answer with the most serious "No girls only" on both questions, so hangout have some fun then say what I wrote or something that's more your style or whatever but you get my point, make it playful, not a serious I like you, not yet at least

[Sandeeppingping]

But don't get your hopes up my guy, if she's full blown lesbian there is nothing you can do, just telling you if I was in your position that is what I would do as my best shot, odds are still not in my favor though you know?

[TroyDT]

She's probably enjoys flirting with you, but probably does not mean it will get past that. Or maybe she swings both ways or is thinking about it. Just keep flirting if you want, but look for other ladies because the odds are that she is just enjoying the validation.

[Lowiu]

She probably does like you but with her being a lesbian and you being a man she's just missing any attraction to you

[CloudMassacre]

Accept the friendship and move on and finally someone who wants You

[joeldalton]

She already told you she wasn't interested in you romantically. You're her bitch.

[KrakenAttackin]

She's bisexual which means she is likely pretty easy. Go for it.

[Guy13]

Is she in a relationship?

[Asker]

Not as of now

[Guy13]

Okay.. in graduate school and a lesbian. She never tried it but always heard man was different than rubber or plastic-I don't remember exact quote. She wanted to try it. "I'm sweet , understanding, and nonjudgmental" BUT no.
Perhaps, this is her. If there is a way that you can discover her sexual history... "Ignorant when we met" questions: have you always been gay? what is attraction to another woman.. don't you get tired of looking at same pasts... have you ever been with a man. You have to understand that she was laughing and informing. She knew me for a year and saw me interact in real time but this never came up until it came up...

[In_Trance]

What is your actual question?

[Asker]

Do I go through with telling her again or nah?

[In_Trance]

If you feel it's worth it

[Fuentes]

I think you are headed down a bad path

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You stay away from that