How can I make sure the second date goes well?

[Anonymous]

Our first date was great but we both got too drunk for me to try anything, even if from what my friends tell me she wanted something to happen

We have plans to hang out at her apartment tomorrow, go to the park and grab a bite, play a game at her house and smoke. But we're in friends, kindaaa close friends even, territory so it's hard to , you know, break that barrier. She initiated it and invited me out also

She seemed to be much better than me at it, touching me a lot from time to time, but I find it difficult. Any advice?

[DaveJord]

Dude you going to her apartment, make a move early and not after smoking or drinking. Then afterward take her out and do your things, then bring her back and hit it again.

When get to her apartment, give her the normal greeting hug... but hold on to the hug a little longer then normal... and pull her in close and give her a frim hug, then pull back a little and look her in the eyes, with out letting her go... then go in for the kiss. If she kisses you back, rub your ands down her back them ask her if she wants to take it inside, and do your man thing.

If she pulls back from you at any give point or doesn't make eye contact or kiss you back... then your dead in the water, because you fell into the friend zone trap.

This is not the time to be shy, or insecure... approach this date like a man on mission... not to get laid per say but to make sure she knows your romantic interests and if it lead to sex then awesome. If not you at least know your not friend zoned.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice! I don't think I can be that direct but I'll give some of it a try, especially the part of just starting it early on

[DaveJord]

Yeah... maybe going for kiss is too much at the start... but hang on to the hug a little be more then just friend hug.

[In_Trance]

don't drink

[rabbitzzz]

Kiss maybe.