How to get a second date?

[Anonymous]

I asked a girl out and she said yes. I was pretty sure she will say yes cuz her friends told me she likes me for a long time. I am really scared that I will be nervous and there will be silence. We know each other for few months but i often dont know what to say. What are best tips for a first date?

[jennifer_bloom]

Make a list of questions you want to ask her. The guy I used to talk to at work asked me what my most recent vacation was, how long I had been in Canada. You can even do a Google search to get possible questions you can give to her if the conversation stalls. Have back up topics in case she refuses to engage a certain idea you bring up. I have met at least 2 guys that will not tell me their religion and I know one guy that would not tell me what country he was born in

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The best tip I can give you is to do something that makes you both comfortable.
Going on a hike is a really good one.

Regardless of what you do though, there will be awkwardness and silence, there's no way around it.
Luckily most girls can talk until they're blue in the face, so just be cool, smile and let her talk. The more interested you act in her, the more she'll want to see you again.

Be yourself and be a little goofy. Girls love dorks, so if you're if you're a dork, don't try to act all smooth. Make her comfortable by showing her that you're comfortable, even if you're dying inside

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Getting sex out of the way first is a good way to break the tension, but I know that's not always possible