Ladies, would you sacrifice eating to look attractive to a man? Guys, what do you think of this?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Like 98-99% of men don't think like this, yet the media will try to pretend all men are this way. Hell, only White men are the ones who WOULD say anything like this, as only they are attracted to stick thin, bony chicks and say all the "landwhale" stuff. Most Asians are naturally skinny and don't have weight preferences and black and Hispanic men actually LIKE thicker curvier women.

And while I do think it's an unfair and overly cruel way to judge someone, many of these same women will give short men the same level of sh*t, if not more. And unlike white guys being the only ones to like anorexic chicks, ALL races of women sh*t on guys below six feet tall. And weight can be changed, unlike height. Not to compare apples and oranges; just pointing out the double standards.

What mostly only white men are attracted to, but women claim "all men" want.

What most other races of men are attracted to, that white men call "fat/obese."

Hardworkingguy · Accepted Answer

Women should do exercise for their health. Starving to death is not necessary

Midgetmcwidget · Accepted Answer

No ofcourse not, my theory is if a guy likes me when I make no effort then he is happy when I do. I have a friend who wears make up and when she doesn’t people ask her if she’s ok as she looks rough. I never wear make up and when I do every ones I look nice but never say I look rough without.

I se the bar low on my appearance so it’s easy to raise.

Macaron02 · Accepted Answer

I honestly think it's a bit dumb; everyone is perfect the way they are, and I'd you don't like someone for the way they look, then don't judge or don't say something; but no I wouldn't sacrifice saying for a guy, I mean it's food. We need it to live.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would not sacrifice eating but I would eat cabbage soup and kale smoothies instead of poutine or pork chops.

BullShark · Answer

Oh God, do women ACTUALLY do this? That's just sick! Ladies, please. Never deliberately starve yourselves just to look more attractive to a guy. It's better to be healthy and single rather than being unhealthy and with the guy you want.

Personally, I don't prioritize how much a girl weighs, or if she's a bit on the chubby size. The only time it's an issue for me is if she has some seriously messed up eating habits, doesn't watch what she eats and if she's morbidly obese and doesn't care. If I'm going through the trouble of taking care of my own body, making myself look the best version I can, I'm doing it for myself more than my partner and I expect if she's doing the same. Eating whatever you want is fine as long as you don't overdo anything or can't manage your calorie intake. That's when it becomes a problem.

Finchie40 · Answer

Ladies be who you are don’t change yourself to appease a man , the only thing a girl needs to do when she gets into a relationship is remove selfishness the same way he should be removing selfishness for you , if you can’t remove selfishness in a relationship don’t get into a relationship, That’s the problem with most relationships today , why people break up or get cheated on because you are selfish and only think about yourselves , It’s not always going to be perfect but when you prioritize your partner like they should be prioritizing you , Lobe will grow

RavVid · Answer

It really shocked and angered me that girls will eat before you take them on a dinner date so you don't see them scoffing their food. Makes a mockery of you taking them for a fine dining experience.

I guess they do get see you spending a lot of money on them.

ZackBan · Answer

I think healthy people are attractive in general. There is no "should" or "shouldn't" involved.
You can chose to be helathy or out of shape and at risk of health problems. It has nothing to do with looking attractive to another person.

All that being said I personally work hard on my own health and so don't see myself attracted to someone who absolutely doesn't

RangerBlue22 · Answer

Her personal health comes first and starving actually screws up your metabolism causing your body to horde more calories to prevent starvation.

If you really want to change your body you need to understand exercise science. The women who look best eat healthy but also have a regular consistent routine of cardio and resistance training (lifting weights is very important)

VIVANT · Answer

I don’t like food much it makes me feel numb & tired. I enjoy not eating. Just see food as necessary for life. On the other hand if I had to stuff myself to be attractive I wouldn’t do that either… so probably if I loved food I wouldn’t sacrifice it for style.

mickmrly · Answer

Unless a woman is overweight enough to be causing health problems, she should be able to eat as much as she likes. Food is for nourishment and enjoyment, in moderation of course. Men who want women to be skinny as will most likely not be changing themselves in a similar fashion.

ZXCwWRQWz · Answer

Skipping meals and going hungry to lose weight is the wrong way to do it. Eat more calorie-sparse and satiating foods, work out, and be healthy. I don't think any guy who wants a healthy woman wants one with an eating disorder just like I'm sure most women that want a strong and healthy man don't want him to be addicted to steroids.

TrueConfection · Answer

Yes and No. I wouldn't give up eating entirely, but if I have an upcoming event and want to look good, I'll skip any extra calories.

I want to add that while there's pressure to look good, there seems to be even more pressure to let ourselves go and eat whatever we want and all the garbage our friends and family want us to, "just try." It really makes me crazy when I have to decline 4 or 5 times to eat whatever someone else is having.

Blackcupcake · Answer

never. my health, my wellbeing and simply my love for food are way more important to me. besides, if me not eating is what will please him, then he can gladly walk out the door, I’ll even roll out a red carpet for him that’ll lead him straight to the garbage bin lol

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

Well not eating is not a healthy way to go about self improvement.
It’s not a deal breaker but if a woman is trying to live a healthier lifestyle and look better naked for me while we’re in a relationship I’m not going to complain. But don’t starve yourself

jshm2 · Answer

That reads like abusive and coercive behaviour.

Not to mention, sounds like the fucker is a cheapskate and doesn't want to pay for much food.

Sure, don't eat the fucking sofa. But having a good balance and proportion is healthy.

PamelaRivers · Answer

I won't starve for nothing or no one. I'd see a doctor and dietitian to get a plan together of how to get where I want to go and be healthy, but I'll never starve.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

No, if men thought like that, I rather be single. There's healthier ways to lose weight and be HEALHILY skinnier. I don't want to be a emaciated wife.

NathanDavis · Answer

sacrificing your own health and well-being just to be liked by others...  that has never been attractive to me in the least

Zolly99999 · Answer

No one should sacrifice eating at any time.. a proper diet is way more important... also you shouldn't have to change yourself for someone else..

sheenagwapa · Answer

no.. i'm big but i'm actually very hard on myself appearance-wise. i cqn listen to what he likes and if i agree because i'm a beauty enthusiast then i will follow his idea

Lina26 · Answer

Nope I won't. But that doesn't mean that I'd let myself out of shape...

Cherry234 · Answer

HELL FUCKING NO! I can eat whatever I want because I have a high metabolism. I just make sure I don't eat too much of anything and I exercise.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

If a chick I'm dating starts trying to improve herself for me, it makes me work 10 times harder on myself otherwise I get self conscious 😂

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Not good. Just eat healthy overall and if required have some discipline so you don't go overboard when eating junk.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

No I might sacrifice eating unhealthy food for my overall health and if makes me look better then it’s an added benefit.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If she can keep her portions reasonable, then good. But starving yourself to claim a man as a trophy is folly.

Guy13 · Answer

Small waist is ALL that matters. You can be gigantic with nasty floppy arms like elephant ears and still look 👀 shapely and attractive

worldscolide · Answer

um wow. No thats absolutely not cool. Dont get me wrong men dont want land whales, but we also do not want women who look like poster children for anorexia.. both are equally as gross.

TroyDT2 · Answer

I think this thought pattern is why so many girls get ill. Avoid obesity, of course, but if you are healthy most guys will never care if you carry a few extra pounds.

Havthrills · Answer

I think she better not. I would like a woman that's healthy, not starving. Some actually don't eat much but that's what they need not because they want to starve.

Iron_Man · Answer

You don’t sacrifice eating you need to eat just have the right kind of foods and get plenty of exercise and then your body will look good after while

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Eat whatever you want, however you want, in whatever quantity you want.

jaadu_14 · Answer

I have 0 respect for these kind of girls who do things like this just to attract a man lollll

SnowedIn · Answer

No. Try to be healthy but don't sacrifice food and enjoying food for looks.

Sixgunsound · Answer

If you sacrifice eating long enough dating won’t be an issue anymore.

AsaKyo · Answer

I already have in the past  Would not do it again

Subarugirl · Answer

Fuck no, if I wear something or do something it’s because I want to or because I like it, not so that I can be eye candy for some rando boys…

shortster · Answer

You don't have to sacrifice food to be skinny. You just have to match your calorie consumption to your activity level. Easier said than done; but it is doable.

dragoblack · Answer

*looks at history* yep, history has taught us self-harm for beauty has gone so well in the past...(this is in sarcasm)  Eat responsibly, eat in portions, drink water, and don't starve yourself

Fuentes · Answer

Humans should watch their calorie intake, their is no excuses to be obese & no man or women should have to accept that. But ain't real ones really attracted to bones.

my_name_is__ · Answer

No never. That's so unhealthy, mentally and physically.

donaldbull48 · Answer

I eat to look good for myself and not for a man lol

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Wish I could but I like food more than I should. Miss my 2017 body.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Currently I eat 3 meals per day and I'm thin but if I ever get fat then yes I'm willing to eat less to stay attractive to my future husband.

Likes2drive · Answer

I wouldn’t want them starving, just eat right and not over indulge but stop eating isn’t something to do

FckY0u998 · Answer

The woman I love has an eating disorder and posts like this are really triggering for her which could cause her to relapse

GrapeApe98 · Answer

Anyone who would do this (woman or man) is a fool to me. If someone cares more about your appearance than you, they ain't worth your time.

ColdExtraction · Answer

who cares about this random person opinion and I know if he was praising fat women, you would say this "Eating disorders exist because of stupid shit like this!".

BJP21 · Answer

Id rather date the attractive girl that can put away a steak dinner and belch like a sailor.

Guardian45 · Answer

If I met a woman like this, I'd run in the opposite direction!

Still-alive · Answer

no need to ever do this. and any guy who gives af about it can go away

ericclayton · Answer

Do what's best for yourself regardless of anyone else's interests.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Don't starve yourself. Do something like intermittent fasting or something.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I think she's gonna pass out! Eat woman eat!

Xtendable · Answer

Thats ridiculous. So what is her ideal figure? Pfft

spartan55 · Answer

I can't think of too many more unappealing things.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Honestly. Like just value your health people. Its really simple.

Twalli · Answer

There are ways to eat and still lose weight. Any guy who cut weight in highschool can tell you. Especially those of us who looked like inmates in the Nazi death camps by the state tournament.

acooke-13 · Answer

I would when I was younger, fuck that now!

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I say what the hell

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

That’s just fucking ridiculous

nawtee_me · Answer

He is not worth it,

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