Is beauty or personality the most important thing in a relationship for you 😄?

[Anonymous]

i think i give more importance to personality🤔

[WonderBell99]

I believe in the quote: "Looks attract me, but personality makes me stay". I would never consider going out on a date with someone that I'm not even the slightest bit attracted to. However, I would also not stay in a toxic relationship just because that person is "hot" or attractive. Sure, people say the "beauty is only skin deep" and "looks fade" and all, but I need to be 100% attracted to someone to form an emotional bond with them if I'm hoping for something romantic with them.

I would much rather date someone that is a "6" to others, but who I'm attracted to and has a great personality (someone who is also compatible with me) than a 9 that has the personality of a smelly trash in NYC (or someone who is not compatible with me).

If you are talking specifically in terms of "getting into a relationship", then I would have already gone out on a date with them.. so I must be attracted to them. In this case, personality and compatibility would be the determining factor on whether I would continue going out with them or not. I could never see myself dating someone I'm not compatible with. That would be an utter nightmare, and rather awkward, I'd imagine.

[jennifer_bloom]

Definitely personality. I don't need a cute guy - just one that I find healthy.

[Charlesbrandonf]

Healthy or wealthy? just curious.

[jennifer_bloom]

@Charlesbrandonf healthy - one who won't die after 10 years.

[HighValue]

Personality, but she needs to be attractive to me or I wouldn't be interested in the first place to ever get to know her personality. At least a 5 in looks and at least an 8 in personality. If she is a 5 in looks she needs to be a 10 in personality. If she is a 6 in looks she needs to be at least a 9 in personality. A 7 or greater in looks she needs to be an 8 or higher in personality. Can't be lower than an 8 in personality compatibility even if she was a 10 in looks.

[genericname85]

in a relationship, obviously personality is the most important thing. i'm not trying to be some sort of fedora tipping white knight. it's simply a fact that "if" you are in a relationship with a person, they likely already passed the "beauty" check xD

[DeltaRecon]

Personality. But they still need to be cute also. You can’t kiss someone that you don’t think is attractive. But you also can’t have a relationship with someone you don’t get along with or just can’t stand to be around no matter how pretty they are. So both go hand in hand.

[hahahmm]

When the personality sucks, it needs to be improved. When the looks suck, they need to be improved.

A guy with options doesn't settle for fat/fugly.

[Lliam]

Personality, for sure. But I wouldn't consider a relationship with someone I didn't find physically attractive.

[Twalli]

I won't date someone I don't find attractive. I won't continue to date a person whose personality I dislike. So to get a date you have to be physically attractive. To get me as your boyfriend your personality is more important.

[Berethor]

Personality if she virgin AKA true good girl, otherwise I would rather go for looks.

[TroyDT2]

As longs as she is not obese or stinky, personality.

[RonStone45]

They are equally important. I can't have a relationship with a girl without having both.

[clampfan101]

Personality by far. Beauty is great, but plenty enough often comes just from being healthy.

[maximumpower]

If can only choose from those two, then personality.

[Emanon25]

I give more to personality

[Gooddaze]

You need both.

[Luckycharms12]

Personality

[Calenderagressive]

Personality