Guys, I am a single man not successful in dating. Women in my family and neighborhood said Women can find men easily but men can't. Is it true?

[Anonymous]

Women are making fun of me. They said women can easily find men whenever they want. They have an upper hand in dating and sex. Men are losers. Men are chasers. We women don't do the chasing and get anything from men. Is it true? I am really upset and single life sucks. I don't know how to handle my sexual urges.

[Anonymous]

It's easy for a woman to get sex, but not commitment or relationships. Easy sex is nothing to brag about and it holds little value to a woman. Certainly not any long lasting one. They only have an upper hand because most men are desperate and don't realize their value.

Your best course of action is to get on your purpose, not dating. Dating will waste your time, money, emotional energy and you will not gain anything beneficial at all. Urges can be channeled into muscle, money and purpose. Mark my words, if you expend energy into dating and hookups, you will waste your time. That I can guarantee you.

The irony is if more men chased their purpose, more women would be chasing them anyway...

[slatyb]

A man or woman who is willing to accept anyone will have no trouble finding a partner. It will take longer for people who are more selective. Where have you looked, and who are you looking for?

[Smashingdoozy]

Well get a control of your sexual urges because that's a massive red flag. Get some hobbies because being an incel isn't cute. Stop complaining because that also isn't cute. Do something proactive, maybe you'll find someone.

[_Just_A_girl_]

You want something long-term try a church or a library to find a nice woman
Groccery?

But you said urges so maybe u like hookups guess that's where tinder is your best bet

[RavVid]

There is a roughly 50-50 population split so it should be roughly equal but it isn't. Women certainly have the upper hand in dating. And certainly can get whatever they want from men.

It is in long term relationships the 50-50 pop split bites.

You can always just pay for sex by the way.

[Berethor]

Usually it easy for women, unless they very ugly, but they called sluts for being too easy.

[Asker]

Is it easy if a man is handsome?

[Berethor]

Easier than for an ugly men, but even a handsome men can have a hard time.

[Asker]

Oh ok

[chicosuave]

They have the upper hand in everything. Sex , dating etc. Also you will notice that most women never go single more then a year or two. Sometimes it takes them months or days to find a guy really fast.