Don’t you think love is painful?

[Anonymous]

I’m no more than an 8/10. So my girlfriend doesn’t want me for my appearance. Only for my personality.

She is a stunning lady that’s for sure. But sometimes it hurts when I think she probably checks out other dudes that are 9s+ when I’m not there. Because that’s what women really want, they are so picky.

She’s just settling for me. That kills

I agree it’s painful 😣

I disagree

[SnowedIn]

I agree wholeheartedly with @LazerBean and @sorrento-sun. But love can hurt, not just because you're doing it wrong (though, again, what LazerBean says is true) but because you love and that love isn't noticed or returned. But, your case is (I apologize for saying it this way) weird. You say that a stunning woman is your girlfriend. You're one step ahead of a lot of men and women. You say "probably" checks out other guys. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. Sir, she's your girlfriend. She chose you. Revel in that and, if you love her (that was your statement) than embrace the love, communicate with her and make yourself irresistible in the countless ways that have nothing to do with looks and abs. And love will no longer be painful.

[exitseven]

There is a lot of anecdotal evidence that says it is.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/soDZBW-1P04

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Midgetmcwidget]

Couples of questions if you don’t mind me asking, how do you know she want you for your appearance, secondly what makes you think she would check out other guys when you aren’t around?

I doubt both tbh, if she’s with you she values you above and beyond anyone else.

[LazerBean]

8 is well above average. And no, if love hurts then you're doing it wrong.

[NathanDavis]

that's not love hurting you though...

that's your own insecurity

[Sorrento-Sun]

Love isn't painful. Being with the wrong person is.

[PetiteBabe64]

Love is emotion love is empathy what your feeling is the emotions of empathy.

[Anonymous]

It can be. That's why you should always know your boundaries. And if your partner crosses them you end it and don't look back. Love demands respect!

[KrakenAttackin]

She's just passing time with you bruh, don't sweat it.

[Guy13]

For sure.

[Guy13]

If there was no pain/hate there would be no pleasure/love. Ability to experientially discriminate is enough Evidence.

The fact that every Action/Emotion has an equal and opposite Reaction/Emotion is a contributory proof.-This to experientially known. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Nikki1989]

Nope. Love is beautiful.

[jimmy2]

It can be but love soaks in

[Batsy01010101]

very painful