We slept together 2 times, he left me and said to my friend" she is a wonderful person and deserves to be happy". Why?

[Deimy]

He promised me that he wants to be in relationship with me but he said that he is fucked up as a person and hates himself cause he can' t plan his time properly and his medicine studies are his priority now

[Be3Bee]

Sounds like he used you and then said something nice to not seem like the bad guy. If he genuinely cared about your happiness, he wouldn't leave you after getting what he wanted.
Or he just didn't like the chemistry between you two and came up with an excuse instead of being honest.

Anyways, that is why if you seek relationship, you shouldn't have sex early on. That would filter out guys who are only after easily accessible sex. Plus the longer two people know each other, the harder it is for one of them to just randomly get up and leave them.

[tonamimargaux]

So we should sleep with a person first in order to see if he actually sticks around or not?

[Be3Bee]

In the end it is all up to you.
And I apologize if text confused by its complexity you but I wrote it as simple as possible.

[tonamimargaux]

Oh sorry my bad i didn’t read the whole comment. I got it now! Thanks 😊

[MCheetah]

Men mean what they say and say what they mean.

So he MEANS, he doesn't feel good enough or worthy for you, like he implied to the friend. There is no hidden message to dissect here.

[tonamimargaux]

He thinks you’re a nice person and you need someone stable, not a fuck boy like him.

[Yellovv]

Sorry but seem like he used you and he already take it what he want, he take pleasure from your pussy and done...