Why he was talking with another woman while he loves me so much?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. For two months we have been constanly fighting basically because we didn't handle our communication properly. All these fights created a very toxic environment in our relationship but we never seemed to leave eachother even though I was saying it. He has showed me that he truly loved me but recently I discovered that he was texting another woman for more than two months... their messages were not so much sexual as emotional and I asked him why he did this to me and he said that because of his insecurity he wanted to take attention and love from a stranger because he was feeling no stress with her and it was impossible to approach me without fighting. He blocked her and deleted everything from his socials and with tears and much begging he swears it wasn't himself and that he will never do such thing again. I feel betrayed and traumatised but I do love him and I want to give him another chance as he asked even though my trust for him is gone. My disappointed is that he was emotionally texting with her for months and it wasn't just a flirt that lasted 1 day. why he did that and what's your opinion?

[Anonymous]

I'm not a relationship expert, but I can offer some general insights. It sounds like your boyfriend's actions may have been a result of his insecurities and difficulty in communicating with you effectively. People sometimes seek emotional connections outside of their relationships when they're feeling unfulfilled or struggling within the relationship.

It's positive that he recognized his mistake, blocked the other person, and apologized. Rebuilding trust can be challenging, but it is possible with open and honest communication. Consider having a heart-to-heart conversation about your feelings, expectations, and boundaries to move forward. You may also want to seek the guidance of a relationship counselor or therapist to help navigate this difficult situation.

Ultimately, whether to give him another chance is a decision only you can make, based on your feelings and what you believe is best for your relationship.

[DannyUk2017]

Why was he talking to another woman? You answered your own question right there... You created a Toxic Environment relationship so he looked for comfort somewhere else.

[Dkc123]

Your shouldn't worry if it wasn't anything emotional or sexual..

[jahaims]

He doesn't love you if he can cheat

[boobliker]

get out and see what happens.

[In_Trance]

you'd have to ask him this