20 years old male 15 years old female?

[Jamesier]

Is it alright for a 20 year old guy to like a 15 year old girl?

It's alright 👌

Not appropriate 🚨

I don't know 🤷‍♂️

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+1 y

For God's sake, jeez, I just find her attractive. 😂😂😂 Nothing more... Was shocked when I found out her age too. She's out of high school and off to college. Well, I asked for others' opinion and I'm getting them

[Finchie40]

It’s ok to like but to go any further with them would be stupid because it’s illegal so I guess it comes down to what the age of consent is where you live , if you really like this girl you are best to talk to the parents and make sure they are ok with you 2 being together that would honestly be the smart thing to do if you plan on going further with this girl , When I was 18 I was attracted to a Girl that was 16 , even though we were only 2 years apart I knew she was under legal age of consent , but she had the hots for me as well , so before I went any further with her I made sure her parents were cool , After I met her parents and realized they were super cool , I fucked the shit out of her that night lol so be smart about it , it’s not worth getting arrested and having that shit on your record and being labeled a pedophile also treat her like gold because you don’t need that shit backfiring on your ass if you crush their daughters feelings , I was always skeptical when it came to under legal age girls , when I was 18 , 19, 20 , etc I know sex is amazing but be smart about that shit

[Jamesier]

😂😂😂 I'm not involved sexually neither planning to be involved sexually with or without her parents consent. I know she's underage and I won't do anything to hurt anyone physically, emotional, etc.

[Finchie40]

Then you are good
To go then , , just be smart about it

[Anonymous]

A 5-year gap is fine, but only if you two are grown adults.

She is a minor... Aside from legal problems, she's pretty much still a child that's learning and hasn't really begun to live a hard adult life yet. When you think about it, why would any adult want a naive child? Not to be so quick to judge you, though... when I was 19, I liked a 13-year-old... Lol.

I realized later in life that the reason I liked them so young was because I sort of didn't think of myself as an adult at the time. I lived a very easy life with my parents, so mentally, I aged VERY slowly... It wasn't until 23 that I started to mature and tap into my adult senses.

[SueShe]

To like a person is fine. To love and to want to be intimate is definitely not okay and it will cause you a great number of problems that may lead to you becoming a criminal with a permanent sexual offender criminal record.

That record will accompany you your entire life and you will have problems finding a job or even an apartment to rent. Is that really what you want? Of course not. If you just like a child and don't pursue your liking beyond that point, you are fine but beware to go beyond and you will have to pay for the consequences.

[Jamesier]

No intimacy/romance intended 😂... Just friends till she's old enough, 19ish

[SueShe]

Friends is ok but I am not sure that her parents will approve because of the risks involved.

[Jamesier]

Yeah, you're right

[77five]

@Jamesier thats grooming

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

@Jamesier However you feel it is okay and nothing is wrong with that no matter what these salty women tell you. Just don't sleep with her because it is breaking the law and could lead to you getting in trouble. But girls love to act like these 18-21 year old guys are going after 8 year olds or something. But at the same time these same girls always are dating older guys on purpose.

[77five]

@BUTIMTIGHTTHO young people will always like older. Its the responsibility and understanding for the older party to not be into it. As a 20-something yr old I was shocked when i learned older men preferred to be with younger women. Thats what turned me off from them.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

What sort of risks, if Jamesier ain’t intending for intimacy?

[ShellyB]

It is not OK to date her or be with her. You just said "is it OK to like her" I guess you can't help if you are attracted to her, and obv. you can just "like" anybody if you think they are friendly or funny or whatever without even being attracted so I would say technically yes it is OK to like her in either sense of the word as long as you don't do anything sexual with her.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Perfect couple, I see nothing wrong. Both of You are in the duration of puberty, and I heard that 15 is aight to have sex in Mexico (I’m aware You’re not planning sex, so even better). Five years difference ain’t too big of a deal to fuss about; I dated Shayna, 11, at 16 years old. I doubt the pigs will arrest You for kissing/hugging/dating (although that’d just prove they’d be twats if they’d have). Go ahead and do it, as long as You don’t do sex or possibly be intimate, which You ain’t planning. All You need is love.

[UnknownPuppet]

I guess it's illegal since she is still a kid but 5 years age difference in general is pretty good. Actually, it is the ideal age difference.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Love is perfectly legal, actually.

[bbear07]

@HippieVeganJewslim actually whether its love or not it is illegal since she is a minor.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

@bbear07 what is illegal? Love is legal. Sexual acts ain’t.

[UnknownPuppet]

@HippieVeganJewslim hmm so we are talking about love like a friend thing? With no attraction and with no sexual desire? OK then it is legal. But if it that the issue why to ask it here. We can love also our siblings even though they are minors. Why don't we ask the same question and we find it normal? Maybe because there is no sexual desire...

[Biancam13]

Nope, that's a massive difference. 15 years old is a child compared to 20. Also, it would be illegal to "do anything."

[HippieVeganJewslim]

It’s legal to love. It’s a mitzvah, even.

[zagor]

Sure. When I was in HS a 15 year old classmate (F) was dating a 21 year old guy. And once accidentally dumped her birth control pills in the hallway.

[Agape93]

@PrettyPriya @SueShe
The pedophile troll is back

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Get lost, Jack Frost!

[Agape93]

Huh?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Leave Jamesier alone. Love of anyone is never paedophilia.

[Agape93]

If it's of a minor by an adult, yeah, it is. I also won't be made to stop calling out a pedophile

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Paedophilia is about sex, not love. If you are jumping to the conclusion that sex and love is the same thing, you need help. Jamesier ain’t looking for sex; He’s looking for love in the 15-year-young lass.

[Agape93]

It's about both. Philia literally means an abnormal love for something. So pedophilia is an abnormal love for minors. So by definition he's a pedophile. Just because he hasn't physically acted on it just means he isn't yet a next level monster.

[Agape93]

So if you sit there and defend pedophiles, you're the one that needs help.

So honestly, fuck off my comment stream.

[Agape93]

I wasn't asking you to fuck off, I was telling you to fuck off. Since you can't follow directions and insist on defending a pedophile, you're blocked

[Anonymous]

Why not just get someone your age? Plenty of pretty 20 or even 21-22 year old mature girls out there too.

[Jamesier]

I'm single and not searching, if I were searching, I'll surely find since I'm in college. I just found someone attractive and wanted to know if I'm alright for finding a 15 year old good looking as this hasn't ever happened before. There are people who don't look their age, you know? I was shocked when I asked her and she told me 15. I'm not interested in anything romantic or sexually as that's disgusting and illegal.

[Opinion Owner]

@jamesier feeling attraction isn't illegal even giving her a hug wouldn't be or a kiss but anything sexual will get you in jail. Just wait till she's older if you'd be serious about dating her otherwise you'd be setting yourself up for trouble. Im not trying to judge either i just mean easily you could get a pretty girl your age too but my ex boyfriend was 18 and i was 22 when i dated him so yeah. Be her friend just be smart about your actions.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’m glad you know the basic difference between love and sex, but girls ain’t like looking for one at a perfect age. That sounds too materialistic, and girls ain’t just objects to adore and discard.

[Anonymous]

Wtf…. I couldnt even like a guy like that if he was 18 and I was 20 if I tried. Wtf is wrong with men…. NO. she's in high school my guy…wtf

[Jamesier]

😂 Nothing serious, just like the personality and maturity. Like a 17 year old and yeah, she's done with high school and off to college

[Jamesier]

And also, nothing is wrong with men. Just found someone who's younger and attractive and that's not bad as long as it doesn't exceed that.

[Opinion Owner]

Its the fact you find a 15 yr old attractive at 20…. And its ALWAYS a red flag when an older man calls a younger girl “mature”. You like that a 15 yr old is mature but the girls your age being mature does nothing for you?

[Jamesier]

I see your point now. Thanks for your opinion. I'm learning a lot from this app

[TacosRAwesome]

It's ok until he realizes she's 15. Some girls look older. But once you learn she's 15, she becomes a child and gross.

[Anonymous]

If you intend to marry her and are willing to wait until she is able to consent to marriage at 16 its fine.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Most Yankee states allow marriage at any age, as long as the legal guardian consents.

[iamaMAP]

Of course it is alright to like her. There's lots of attractive young women.

[KrakenAttackin]

You knew what the response would be when you posted this question.

[Jamesier]

@KrakenAttackin nope

[Allison97909]

i mean when you think about it it's not that bad but at the same time it is bc when the guy was 5 he was going to school and the girl is just barely being born.

[nawtee_me]

I was graduating high school when my ex-wife was starting the first grade. We didn't meet until she was 28 and I was 40.

[Allison97909]

@nawtee_me oh 💀

[HippieVeganJewslim]

It had been 16 years since Leo Borlock was born, but felt like a century. The girl was born ages ago and already learnt many skills, I presume.

[Twalli]

It's a bit odd, especially if her age is one of the things that makes her attractive to you.

[misogynistic_pig]

It's alright 👌

[alice55]

It’s legal in France but still creepy

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Where else is such marriage legal, apart from most Yankee states and Mexico?

[alice55]

@HippieVeganJewslim bresil some part of Japan germany muslim country there s a ton

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I won’t be surprised if most of the world allows it.

[alice55]

@HippieVeganJewslim most of thé world actually allow it
I think it’s mostly america that is very strict about it

Like incest is forbbiden in america but in France it’s legal nobody care about it

[Anonymous]

Wait till she’s 18 to be safe.

[joeldalton]

Absolutely not appropriate.

[JohnK123]

What is their connection

[jimmy2]

Jail bate for one
Pedofile too

[La_isla_bonita23]

She is a child

[HippieVeganJewslim]

A child who hit puberty? Oy, please!

[Iron_Man]

Nope