Do women secretly crave abusive men?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Seems like women like abusive men. Because I can't understand how women could not know the difference from a fist to the head to a nice hug. Yet seems like today women like the fist and abuse.

Seems like they always stay with these men who abuse them and maybe women have some sick perverted version of what love is?

Seems like the assertive confident controlling man that you find so sexy is worth all the abuse.

[Chris_Morgan]

I stayed with a lying, emotionally manipulative, and sometimes physically abusive woman for many years because she was really hot (Physically the woman of my dreams) and there's some weird part of me that liked how unapologetic and selfish she was. I also didn't know any different, she was my first real relationship.

I imagine it's similar for some women who get into committed relationships with abusive men.

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Must have been good sex. at least you did not have a. kid with her.

[Chris_Morgan]

The sex was really great and we do have a kid together.

[anonpabo]

many times when people crave abusive people its because they didn't get the love of important figures in their lives , whether bc of the absence of the figure or abuse from the figure. it can be a trauma response or just simply all they have ever known.

[melanieeeB]

No, some do get with abusive men but that's mostly cause they didn't learn better and that's what they're used to... it's sad but the majority don't want to be with an abusive partner.

[Steamnir]

Wtf? No.

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

You say no but most female counter parts stay with abusive men. I think women like someone taking charge.