Do you have any idea how many women a man sees daily that he finds attractive? it takes more than a pretty face for her to be worth an approach, my real time and my real attention. And approaching in this foolish culture now holds it's own new risks too, so that's another thing to consider. The problem is women over rate looks thinking it will make a guy approach...
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Yeah true but I’m also considered attractive and guys approach me all the time
Could be her attitude. I went on a date with a lovely woman I've been talking with for a while online, and the first thing that struck me about her was the way she carries an extremely condescending demeanor and facial expression towards most people. Now, she changed that up with me really quick, but it left a distinct and bad taste in my mouth. I understand where it comes from, but all I could think when I saw that was "ohhhh wow... so you think you're better than everyone."
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Was her condescending demeanor on purpose? Some girls just have a serious face
That’s a good question. I have no idea, honestly. I think that her demeanor is probably the result of dealing with so many people who don’t impress her that it has become a default setting for her. I can tell you that she changed in a heartbeat when she picked up on my vibe; so there’s definitely some amount of it that is intentional.
It's gotta be her body language. She looks expensive. Even her casual dress looks expensive and anything but casual. But that won't keep guys away, it will only change which kind of guy approach her. Same with guys being intimidated. That will only change who approaches her.
She does look depressed though. That shouldn't keep guys away either.
She probably just has a vibe that isn't open and approachable.
Gorgeous girl syndrome. They figure, she's so gorgeous she MUST already have at LEAST one boyfriend and dozens more waiting in the wings for their turn with her so, there's NO point in even TRYING to win her over and, why would she even look twice at a shlub like me!!
Sometimes in life you have to turn the tables on people. As for your beautiful friend she’s single for a simple reason & that is because she simply chooses to be however she has the power to change that. As for your friend instead of her waiting for guys to ask her out she should start approaching guys & ask them out.
If she has that face all the time, even a confident man would think twice.. LOL.. But, yeah for all the reasons the other guys said.. Intimidation, and the fact that many are stuck up, and the whole little chasm between men and women today also.. Not many women get approached outside of club/drunk situations anymore.
She is a victim of her own "attractiveness". For one thing attractiveness is subjective, also the more attractive a girl the less willing because people just automatically assume said girl has literal waves of guys coming after her who are normally much better looking than they are so they don't bother
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Lol I’m attractive and get approached all the time
She looks standoffish and like she would have a lot of high expectations.
Men prefer to ask out women who look average but still cute enough to get them hard. If the woman looks like a model her personality is probably trash because she's used to her looks carrying her.
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That’s stupid. There are girls who are beautiful and sweet
Is that her photo? If so, I'd do my best to try to seduce her. I'd love to give her head. She's very sexy looking - model caliber. Beautiful body as well. I would love to have her ass cupped in the palms of my hands while I brought her pussy to my face and lick her until she's so far out on the edge of needing to cum that when I finally let her cum it would be a screaming, back-arching, pelvis thrusting orgasm. I have no idea why soimeone that hot does not attract just about any guy she wants
My thing with beautiful woman is. Once every guy knows that she is available and not stuck up. Then the competition begins! Everyone wants her!!! First picture looks too much like a business woman. Second looks high maintenance! Third would catch my attention and maybe want to get to know her better.
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That’s true. I had another girlfriend from my cheer team in high school who was actually super shy but also beautiful and went out on a date with this guy and he told everybody naturally and guys would flirt with her a lot more than before. I don't know if they started approaching because they were jealous she didn’t go out with them yet or what but I hadn’t thought of that in a while
On looks alone without knowing anything else I’d approach her but the questions I’d ask. Does she ever smile, is she fun, can she hold a conversation or is she just all about looks. Beautiful women get approached all the time so there’s gotta be some other reason. Is she super shy? Is she boring? Is she snobby? There’s a bunch of questions that need to be addressed
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Well I get approached all the time so that’s why we’re wondering why she doesn’t. She’s just as beautiful
I heard this a lot. Girls with model qualities have an extremely hard time getting to know guys. Especially today, with „Me2“ looming in every corner. The only solution for your friend is to become active herself and start talking to guys. 🤔
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But guys talk to me all the time even when I’m alone or if I’m with her so it’s not that they’re shy
When us Guys see a beautiful Girl he immediately thinks that the Girl won't like us if we do talk to her and if we say one wrong thing She is instantly going to think we are Weird or Creepy which is why we don't Approach, That's why we would rather get Approached by a Girl because She would already like us and it would at least give us a better chance.
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She's emotionally unavailable. Contrary to popular belief guys DO NOT make the first move. If a woman feels she's "Gorgeous". She'll put NO EFFORT towards attracting men. Then she'll erroneously think that guys just aren't interested.
Nope, sorry, closed mouths don't get fed.
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But I also don’t put in effort but guys still approach me all the time
Good question. We always stereotype people so the gorgeous go into the box that is unapproachable, difficult and will be rude. Over time, I realised that this is not the case and it is a generalisation. I don't know of other reasons but guys assume this and back off thinking the girl has many suitors or already has a partner
People who are often very successful in life or have a special gift in this case beauty tend to be full of ish.
Gorgeous women often feel like their beauty is their meal ticket and often it is but most of them seriously have nothing else going for them personality wise so men don't feel welcomed by them to try speak or flirt with them because their attitudes often sucks.
Because most guys have gone through so many rejections, by even what may be considered low standard women (and I only say that as a guy who has been called a 'low standard guy' after asking out my crush) We end up knowing better than to flirt with someone out of our leauge, or even equal to it.
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You’re out of her league if she says that about you. Like why would you say that to anyone
Because they think she's already dating and she's hard maintenance and most of them want women to worship them, not the opposite so they take the easy lazy road
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I think there was a study done in recent years showing that guys assumed they wouldn't have a chance with especially attractive women, so they didn't try, and it actually caused women with less conventional beauty to have more options/men approaching them.
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I find it hard to believe that guys prefer to approach women they consider unattractive.
I think there may be a misunderstanding. I said "women with less conventional beauty" not "unattractive women." Like, if a girl is a 9 or a 10 physically, men would assume they don't have a chance so they don't try and instead go for women who are 7s or 8s.
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Do you have any idea how many women a man sees daily that he finds attractive? it takes more than a pretty face for her to be worth an approach, my real time and my real attention. And approaching in this foolish culture now holds it's own new risks too, so that's another thing to consider. The problem is women over rate looks thinking it will make a guy approach...
Yeah true but I’m also considered attractive and guys approach me all the time
Then that strongly suggests it's not just about looks...
Could be her attitude. I went on a date with a lovely woman I've been talking with for a while online, and the first thing that struck me about her was the way she carries an extremely condescending demeanor and facial expression towards most people. Now, she changed that up with me really quick, but it left a distinct and bad taste in my mouth. I understand where it comes from, but all I could think when I saw that was "ohhhh wow... so you think you're better than everyone."
Was her condescending demeanor on purpose? Some girls just have a serious face
That’s a good question. I have no idea, honestly. I think that her demeanor is probably the result of dealing with so many people who don’t impress her that it has become a default setting for her. I can tell you that she changed in a heartbeat when she picked up on my vibe; so there’s definitely some amount of it that is intentional.
It's gotta be her body language. She looks expensive. Even her casual dress looks expensive and anything but casual. But that won't keep guys away, it will only change which kind of guy approach her. Same with guys being intimidated. That will only change who approaches her.
She does look depressed though. That shouldn't keep guys away either.
She probably just has a vibe that isn't open and approachable.
Gorgeous girl syndrome. They figure, she's so gorgeous she MUST already have at LEAST one boyfriend and dozens more waiting in the wings for their turn with her so, there's NO point in even TRYING to win her over and, why would she even look twice at a shlub like me!!
But I get approached a lot and I’m pretty
You may be a different, more casual and approachable kind of pretty.
Sometimes in life you have to turn the tables on people. As for your beautiful friend she’s single for a simple reason & that is because she simply chooses to be however she has the power to change that. As for your friend instead of her waiting for guys to ask her out she should start approaching guys & ask them out.
If she has that face all the time, even a confident man would think twice.. LOL.. But, yeah for all the reasons the other guys said.. Intimidation, and the fact that many are stuck up, and the whole little chasm between men and women today also.. Not many women get approached outside of club/drunk situations anymore.
She is a victim of her own "attractiveness". For one thing attractiveness is subjective, also the more attractive a girl the less willing because people just automatically assume said girl has literal waves of guys coming after her who are normally much better looking than they are so they don't bother
Lol I’m attractive and get approached all the time
She looks standoffish and like she would have a lot of high expectations.
Men prefer to ask out women who look average but still cute enough to get them hard. If the woman looks like a model her personality is probably trash because she's used to her looks carrying her.
That’s stupid. There are girls who are beautiful and sweet
Exceptions do not invalidate the rule.
Is that her photo? If so, I'd do my best to try to seduce her. I'd love to give her head. She's very sexy looking - model caliber. Beautiful body as well. I would love to have her ass cupped in the palms of my hands while I brought her pussy to my face and lick her until she's so far out on the edge of needing to cum that when I finally let her cum it would be a screaming, back-arching, pelvis thrusting orgasm. I have no idea why soimeone that hot does not attract just about any guy she wants
My thing with beautiful woman is. Once every guy knows that she is available and not stuck up. Then the competition begins! Everyone wants her!!!
First picture looks too much like a business woman.
Second looks high maintenance!
Third would catch my attention and maybe want to get to know her better.
That’s true. I had another girlfriend from my cheer team in high school who was actually super shy but also beautiful and went out on a date with this guy and he told everybody naturally and guys would flirt with her a lot more than before. I don't know if they started approaching because they were jealous she didn’t go out with them yet or what but I hadn’t thought of that in a while
Nothing against the beautiful girl. You find out who your friends are, as they ask her out behind your back!
On looks alone without knowing anything else I’d approach her but the questions I’d ask. Does she ever smile, is she fun, can she hold a conversation or is she just all about looks. Beautiful women get approached all the time so there’s gotta be some other reason. Is she super shy? Is she boring? Is she snobby? There’s a bunch of questions that need to be addressed
Well I get approached all the time so that’s why we’re wondering why she doesn’t. She’s just as beautiful
I heard this a lot. Girls with model qualities have an extremely hard time getting to know guys. Especially today, with „Me2“ looming in every corner. The only solution for your friend is to become active herself and start talking to guys. 🤔
But guys talk to me all the time even when I’m alone or if I’m with her so it’s not that they’re shy
Uhm, yeah, my point exactly. These guys don’t see you as an art piece of unobtainium on a pedestal. Otherwise you would suffer the same fate.
When us Guys see a beautiful Girl he immediately thinks that the Girl won't like us if we do talk to her and if we say one wrong thing She is instantly going to think we are Weird or Creepy which is why we don't Approach, That's why we would rather get Approached by a Girl because She would already like us and it would at least give us a better chance.
She's emotionally unavailable. Contrary to popular belief guys DO NOT make the first move. If a woman feels she's "Gorgeous". She'll put NO EFFORT towards attracting men. Then she'll erroneously think that guys just aren't interested.
Nope, sorry, closed mouths don't get fed.
But I also don’t put in effort but guys still approach me all the time
Sure you don't.🙄 🤣🤣🤣
Good question. We always stereotype people so the gorgeous go into the box that is unapproachable, difficult and will be rude.
Over time, I realised that this is not the case and it is a generalisation.
I don't know of other reasons but guys assume this and back off thinking the girl has many suitors or already has a partner
People who are often very successful in life or have a special gift in this case beauty tend to be full of ish.
Gorgeous women often feel like their beauty is their meal ticket and often it is but most of them seriously have nothing else going for them personality wise so men don't feel welcomed by them to try speak or flirt with them because their attitudes often sucks.
Because most guys have gone through so many rejections, by even what may be considered low standard women (and I only say that as a guy who has been called a 'low standard guy' after asking out my crush) We end up knowing better than to flirt with someone out of our leauge, or even equal to it.
You’re out of her league if she says that about you. Like why would you say that to anyone
1. She might appear to be intimidating or unapproachable to them.
2. They might know something derogatory about her that you aren't aware of.
3. Believe it or not, she might not be their type. Maybe, you are!
Because they think she's already dating and she's hard maintenance and most of them want women to worship them, not the opposite so they take the easy lazy road
I think there was a study done in recent years showing that guys assumed they wouldn't have a chance with especially attractive women, so they didn't try, and it actually caused women with less conventional beauty to have more options/men approaching them.
I find it hard to believe that guys prefer to approach women they consider unattractive.
I think there may be a misunderstanding. I said "women with less conventional beauty" not "unattractive women." Like, if a girl is a 9 or a 10 physically, men would assume they don't have a chance so they don't try and instead go for women who are 7s or 8s.