Men look at me but never try to approach me, flirt with me and always stand far away from me and act reserved but interact way more comfortable and even pushy with other women. I don’t expect every man in the world to be attracted to me but I also don’t think I’m super unattractive so what could be the other reasons for men to act so distant and cautious around me?
A'ight, lemme think why some bros might be hesitant to holla at you...
- Signals - Sometimes bad vibes or signals can put guys off without you meaning to. Like if you look unapproachable or too serious, they may think you ain't in the mood.
- Intimidated - You ever consider you could be straight up gorgeous and intimidate em? Especially them shy boys. Nice guys might be scared of rejection.
- Confidence - Could be the way you carry yourself screams "take me serious." Some dudes only mess with girls they think they can charm.
- Attached - Also maybe they think you gotta boyfriend already so don't risk it. Do you wear a ring or people see you with the same guy a lot?
- Environment - Where you be at also plays a role. Like a bar is prime for chattin girls up vs library not so much, feel?
Hard to say for real without seeing it, but I wouldn't stress - their loss! Just keep doin you, keep it positive, smile more - that can invite guys to come say wassup easier. Nothing wrong with you sis!
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your probably awkward in terms of bein invitin to men and ya gotta understand gender feminism and the me too movement so ya need to work on bein more invitin and to cold approach and strike up conversations with men your sexually attracted to and if ya feel that your void of the sexual validation that ya desire even though i already got somebody please show me what ya look like and ill definitely help ya out
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Maybe you have a RBF, or give off a stand offish type of feeling.. Or maybe it's in your head and you are overthinking it and just haven't put yourself in an easy situation to be hit on or flirted with.
Could be the "looks/vibes" that you give... if they look offensive that could be one of the motive. 🤷♂️
i don’t know, but men do flirt in different ways, and some wait for signals from women first. whatever it is i wouldn’t take it to heart
Sometimes girls who are quite attractive or who are more attractive than other women locally can be intimidating for guys to flirt with.
Do u go out to places where flirting is done frequently
Oh, I probably would… What @Oliverlogan263 said.
I need to know more about you before I could try answering this question.
My guess is the vibe you put out. My daughter told me I put out an unapproachable vibe.
I learned that growing up in a big city.Because certain women don't give iff rhe vibe that they want to be flirted with.
Others appear too desperate. Desperation is uglyCould be your body language. Are you inviting them to approach you?
you're either very attractive, or very unattractive ;)
There may be some secrets kept from you or you are scary
It is your vibe probably, they dont feel close or comfortable around you.. so you make them stiff..;)
Do you have RBF?
Do you have wicked resting bitch face?
You're emotionally unavailable.
It's your "vibe"
Probably your vibes.
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