I joined Tinder but I’m finding it hard to know what to say, can I get some help?

[Anonymous]

So I joined Tinder last week and have made my profile. I’ve got a few matches and I’m talking to this one girl who sounds nice.

I’m just talking normally but she very clearly wants me to make a move on her as she keeps making obvious statements for me to take her out or watch a move with her. I’m completely clueless as to how I should respond to a message like that.

For example, she asked me about my favourite movie and she responded: “I’ve never seen that before, maybe u could show me it sometime 😉”

I am not good at this at all.

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We were talking about our favourite drinks and she says ‘idm a vodka with lemonade but I’ve never tried whiskey before. Maybe I could have a sip of urs? x’ I don't know why I’m so awkward when I get messages like this, I have no clue what to say

[ManOnFire]

Well, first, you want to make sure she's not a fake account from a bot or somebody. If you're pretty sure she's not, then I would respond with a definite "I would love to show you that movie if you want to meet." That puts the ball back in her court and what she says - or doesn't say - will let you know what's going to happen.

Don't overthink it. Just be cool and coy and play along.

[Asker]

She’s definitely real, her account is verified and she goes to a university near mine, we have like 3 universities all close together here.

[ManOnFire]

Alright well that's good. Now you need to just give that response to her about the movie.