Most Helpful Girl
Be original and different! Ask about a photo they have or make a funny joke to them. I had a photo up of me abit sunburnt and a guy made a joke/compliment saying "Nice sunburn 😛" I just laughed it off and we still talk up to this day!
Dont use a pick up line or say hi cause you will get overlooked6
Most Helpful Guy
I always open with something about their bio. Why?
(1.) Like 90% of men immediately jump to her looks ("hey beautiful") or ask if they'd like to fuck.
(2.) Many men don't even read the bios, let alone mention anything about them.
If a girl on Tinder is even somewhat serious, she'll have a bio that will be more specific than "swiped right for the dog". Women will usually out important details that they WANT you to know in the bio.
•Her school and major
•Relationship preference (casual or serious)
Messaging a woman either with a question or compliment involving one of these things will set you apart and capture her interest. Some examples I've used:
"You're studying to be a teacher? That's great! What do you want to teach after school?"
"You said you like reading, what are your favorite books? Mine is the Alchemist, I loved it for its many life lessons and sense of adventure!"
Something that shows you care more about her than her looks won't work with all women, but for those that are actually worth your time on that app, it is a good strategy.7