Why is my best friend more attentive than my actual boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I don't know my best friends a guy whose just married yet he has a whole wife dude seems more in tuned with exciting things happening in my life than my own boyfriend

[Anonymous]

Because your expectations of your boyfriend are so much more. This is pretty common among women. They don't realize that generally they're thier own problem.

[Asker]

So I can't be upset that my boyfriend intentionally never brings things up after the fact? Like say my interview tomorrow my boyfriend won't talk about it unless I bring it up?

[Opinion Owner]

No not at all. But you do have the choice of whether to hold him to those expectations or not.

[Opinion Owner]

You ALWAYS have the choice of whether you let something upset you or not.

[dustybiker]

Raised differently. Different personality. Socially different. They aren’t the same person. Bring up what you like or let your boyfriend know as he does something you like so he can learn.

[misogynistic_pig]

Because he is a beta man, that is precisely why these men put them in the friend zone, for having low self-esteem and flattering women who are not family members.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he likes you