My little sister is dating the high school starting quarter back and I’m worried about her getting her heart broken. Am I stereotyping him?

[Anonymous]

That’s not him but a pic off google. My little sister has been talking non stop about how the starting quarter back asked her out and they started dating. They went out to eat today and she is really into him. I’m worried he’s another jock just gonna use her? Aren’t high school football players players?

[HollyK21]

He could be a quarter back, linebacker, baseball player, hockey player, whatever sport, it doesn’t matter — if he doesn’t intend on committing to her then he just won’t. What matters are his morals and the sort of person he was raised to be. Personally I don’t judge people based off stereotypes, and would rather give the benefit of the doubt by learning their true nature on my own, because I know personally I would hate if someone automatically assumed I’m this or that. Regardless of all of that, even though you’re her brother it’s not really your place to dictate who she can and can’t date. You can advise her, maybe get to know this dude since you’re a guy as well and can get a better read on his intentions, but you can’t tell her what to do. This is her life, her journey and her lessons to learn for better or worse. Give the guy a chance, he may surprise you.

[Hypermotard1916]

"it is her choice" - f (off) to the choice, for every action there is a consequence, you get to accept it.
You will never know the pain of a brother, when her sister is impregnated and abandoned by him.

[HollyK21]

She’s not impregnated or abandoned. If this is something you were involved with or projecting then stop while you’re ahead.

[Hypermotard1916]

hahaha, i was speaking of future. You cannot stop me...

[HollyK21]

So you can see into the future? Wow.

[Hypermotard1916]

i have seen past repeat, hence I can say so...

[HollyK21]

So you’ve repeatedly seen a young girl date a young quarterback and get played? Then you say that weird shit, “You will never know the pain of a brother when his sister is impregnated and abandoned by him”, tf does that mean anyway? You’ve knocked up your sister? That’s entirely disturbing and I’d say just stop but yOu can't bE StoPped.😒

[Hypermotard1916]

madame first learn to read, I said that the quarter back koncks up the girl then her borther will feel bad for his sisters suffering and punish himself for not intervening, first lean to read...

[Hypermotard1916]

@HollyK21 dont ever put words in my mouth, this is a warning...

[HollyK21]

"it is her choice" - f (off) to the choice, for every action there is a consequence, you get to accept it.
You will never know the pain of a brother, when her sister is impregnated and abandoned by him.”
That’s a copy and paste, so how about you re-read what you said, because quarterback is no where in there.

[Hypermotard1916]

that him is Quarterback you moron, seems like after LGPTQIA+ have fked up your understanding of pronouns

[HollyK21]

First learn to proof read your comments and let them make sense before you throw them out to the world. “This is a warning”, sounds like a threat to me — don’t do that.

[HollyK21]

Alright, I’m blocking you. Since you can’t help yourself.

[PrettyPriya]

@HollyK21 I wonder what the consequences of breaking said warning are? Harsh I would imagine. 🤣

[HollyK21]

@PrettyPriya I’m shaking in my boots Priya lol😂

[DubiousIntentions]

I think you should care more about her getting pregnant. When a girl has a crush on a guy her brains go out the window. They want to keep this guy, no matter what the cost, and that includes having sex with them and doing anything that they ask.

[Guy13]

Nope. Watch him casually. Don’t want her protecting him and running into his arms…

[Blueeyes81]

At that age 98% of relationships end in heartbreak. He could be a saint and one or the other or both would end with a broken heart. Unless he has given reason that he is douchebag let them be and let them learn about relationships. Thats kinda the point at that age, to learn what you like and dislike and to learn to be a good boyfriend and girldfriend.

[KelleyNice]

Suppose she goes on a dozen dates, she has a good time on all dozen and then the relationship. Are you suggesting it, instead of going on dates and having good times, it would have been better if she had stayed home?

[WindAtMyBack]

You're stereotyping. Unless he already has a bad reputation, wait and see what happens. But either way there's isn't much you can do about it.

[mattdzz]

Of course they are- they are at the top of the hierarchy in high school. Why would they be loyal?

[Twalli]

The fact that he expressed interest in her is possibly a good thing. As long as she's willing to hold of on sex until she knows he's interested in her and not what she has under her clothes, he can't hurt her too badly.

[DancingQueen16]

Its nice that you care about your little sister's well-being but I think you should trust that not all guys who play football are jerks

[AimeeKyle]

Maybe. Get to know him. Let his personality and actions should be your guide to making a decision and giving advice. Be careful though, sometimes advice can lead to the opposite actions.

[slatyb]

You don't know anything about his character. How old is he? How old is your sister?

[Anonymous]

He satisfies her sexually in ways you never could cause he's a real man.

[Anonymous]

Most likely she will get used or put on the side because of his career

[dustybiker]

Why don’t you talk to him and find out?

[WhitneySnow]

Not all of them are

[BigschlongEnergy]

You should watch the Show 13 reasons why

[BigschlongEnergy]

It’s got jocks in it and reminds me of What your sister Is getting into. Just watch the show You’ll enjoy it.

[Iron_Man]

Be careful