Am I wrong for being so cautious?

[Anonymous]

I came out of a long lasting relationship with someone I loved, I healed or at least I thought I did but I keep self sabotaging potential new relationships. They all say “I love you” too quickly in my opinion we’d be speaking for a couple of days and they’d say it and I’d always reply with the same thing “I have strong feelings for you but I think it’s too early to tell you I love you yet I’m sorry”
Kills the vibe every time but I can’t help myself

[LazerBean]

I would hope that's just common sense, but I guess it isn't so common after all.

[Asker]

Apparently not :/

[Bethany22]

Women use I love you as a sentence filler. I wouldn't take it too seriously

[Guy13]

Cautious in todays world is both smart and required.

[CrisFantazyNFury]

nopee!