Should I be Worried Or Am I Just Overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I met my boyfriend a while back and we talked for a while before finally making it official last year. But we have been getting somewhat distant from eachother and I feel like he is talking to other wemon.

The only thing I really use to keep in contact with his is Snapchat, so I can't really see who he is friends with. I managed to find his Facebook account, Instagram and TikToc and most of the people he follows and follows him are wemon. I wouldn't mind if they were wemon we didn't know, but almost all of them we know (some of them being inappropriate to any guy they meet). Some went to school with him, some we met at parties and things like that.

Not only that but anytime we are together just laying around and on our phones, anytime I look at him he is turned to where I cannot see his phone. I don't care what he's doing on it, but when he intentionally hides it any time I look over it makes me worried. So I would try and actually see what he is doing, which only leads him to closing out the app he was currently on and going to YouTube, turning the phone further away from me, turning his phone off, or leaving the room.

Should I be worried about him talking to other girls, or am I just Overthinking?

[xiaolian]

Let him date his phone, he doesn't appreciate you. Don't tell him your feelings, he will ignore it and think you are weak, he already is being dishonest so being honest won't work. Make him jealous, maybe ask for a time and see how he reacts.

[Asker]

Okay. Thank you, I will try and talk to him about it and if he shruggs it off again, then it's over.

[Avicenna]

Unless you have more of a reason to be suspicious, I’d say you should give him the benefit of the doubt

[Asker]

Okay, thank you.

[dustybiker]

I would call him on the “turning” thing in the moment. “Hiding something.” But it wouldn’t be an attack. It would be more humerus.

Main point. You don’t know. Just ask. Talk with him.

[dustybiker]

* humorous (one of my best auto corrects in a long time 🤣)

[Asker]

I asked him a few times about his and he would dismiss it. I don't really want to make him mad my asking in the moment, he is kinda scary and I don't like upsetting people. 😅

[Asker]

That was funny lol. The autocorrect made my day.

[dustybiker]

Well, take care of you. Only thing I could add is trust your instincts.

[Asker]

Thank you. I will try and talk to him about it.

[dustybiker]

Thank you for the mhg.
I hope everything smooths out for you two.

[JoyGirl]

You should be worried.
Please, communicate your feelings with him.

[Asker]

I will try. Thank you.

[JoyGirl]

💜💜💜

[Guy13]

Give it a test and ask him about it. Make-up can become real…

[Asker]

Okay, I will do that. Thank you

[Guy13]

Good Luck 🍀

[Massageman]

Be concerned at this point. Discuss things, face to face.
At that point, you should know if you can just forget the whole thing, or be worried.

[Asker]

Okay, thank you.

[jammcm]

Get away from the electronic world. Talk in person, if you don't talk in person you do not have a real relationship.

[Asker]

I did adress it in person but he dismissed it. We can't really talk in person much at the moment. I'm busy finishing up schooling and he is working all of the time.

[SignedAutographs]

What does "making it official" mean?

[Asker]

After talking for a while, we finally decided to get together and be a couple. ^^

[Anonymous]

I would be very worried.

[Asker]

I am worried. 🙁