I've been seeing my ex girlfriend for 3 months now and we've hungout, went on dates, sex and everything... we went 2 months in the summer without seeing each other and we're not exclusive right now and she's talked about other guys and I had a feeling she's been talking to other guys at the same time and so last night while we were sleeping, I went through her text messages (which I've never done before, with anyone) and I was right. I couldn't read the one thread of messages from this one guy because they weren't open yet but I saw his last text, " goodnight sweet dreams" but I was able to read messages from this other guy and it's clear she's seeing him too. Kissy face emojis, planning hangouts, flirt talk and everything... so now I know 100%. We've talked about having kids and getting married but there's at least 2 other guys... so now I'm all fucked up on what to do... cuz I know she's essentially doing everything with him, same with what we do... clearly seems like I'm behind him. I love this girl and I told her how I feel and wanna be with her and everything (didn't tell her that I love her) but said everything else... she has commitment issues and fears.. but it's like ugh, now what?
Thinking what to do?
