Not sure what to do or what to think?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my girlfriend for about a year now and over the weekend we were making dinner and her phone went off and I grabbed it to give it to her. I saw that it was a message from a guy, he sent her two dick pics and said I can't wait to have sex with you tomorrow. She claims that she befriended him at work because she is trying to make friends. But I am not sure what to do or think?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t think it’s wrong to befriend people from work but it does sound suspicious, that he send nude photos and a comment saying he can’t wait to have sex with her.


In my very honest opinion, I wouldn’t trust her. To me, it sounds like an agreement was made, or this guy is completely nuts and thinks they’re gonna have sex (which is not likely the case).


I wouldn’t trust her one bit, because if a “friend” sent that, I would be blocking him and reporting him at work for sexual harassment. That’s a big deal and not someone I would want to continue being friends with or be around at work.

[Asker]

She says that she wants to blow his ass up on a website and that if it gets worse at work that she will do something about it

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yeah, that’s immature and illegal.
Here’s my blunt opinion;
If she truly does not like what he did and said, she would report it. So here’s what I think, she’s just lying to you and going to screw him behind your back.

[PrettyPriya]

Well, nothing wrong with her befriending a coworker. What is entirely wrong is this guy sending nude photos. What was her explanation or reaction to it?

[Asker]

No nothing wrong with her befriending a guy at all he sent her 2 dick pictures and texted her saying I can't wait to have sex with you tomorrow. I told her that she got some messages and she was like ew gross I never had the intention on doing anything with him.

[PrettyPriya]

I would trust her. If she cares and respects you, she will cut ties with this person and there will be no more pictures or messages sent. If it were me, I'd block the number.

[Asker]

Ok so i shouldn't look into him saying that he can't wait to have sex with her tomorrow part?

[PrettyPriya]

Is there any reason not to trust her? If the answer is no, then don't read too much into it. It is just some jerk guy with no sense of boundaries. Trust that she will do the right thing and not communicate with the idiot after such a disgusting stunt.

[Asker]

I mean i don't know she did give me a key to her place and she bought me an ezpass and is paying for it without even telling me she brought me it. I am just not sure if she is going to do anything about it

[PrettyPriya]

I’m just speculating but if she was really upset and is going to take action, I wouldn’t worry.

She can’t control someone else’s behaviour. She can only prevent it from happening again by taking the necessary actions.

[Asker]

She isn't going to do anything and she said if it does escalate at work then she will go and tell someone but she says she hasn't seen him at work yet

[PrettyPriya]

Hmm, I would have done something about it. At least she is willing to escalate it to her boss. I would have done that right away though. I wouldn't wait for it to happen again.

[Anonymous]

She'd be my ex right after the meal.
They've been talking, period.
Don't buy any excuses.

I busted my ex talking with a guy at work when her response was, "you don't have to worry, I can't get pregnant " She wouldn't have said that if they weren't planning sex. Out the fucking door she went the next day... literally.

I have NO tolerance for cheaters, and less than ZERO for liars!

[RobT312]

Your girlfriend has explaining to do.
co-workers don’t just send nude pics unless there has been sexual talk beforehand.

i think you busted your girlfriend to be honest

[DeepPassionateLover]

Sorry bro, but that's sounds more than just a tad iffy

[Asker]

It does unless the guy was thinking that she won't be able to resist my penis so i will just say straight up that i can't wait to have sex with you tomorrow

[girlwithglasses01]

Ohh yeah that sounds like something a guy has said to me

[Asker]

@girlwithglasses01 damn really like someone straight up told you that he can't wait to have sex with you the following day without you both talking about it first

[girlwithglasses01]

I mean he was kinda flitting but then he was confident cocky enough to expect me to accept

[Dojaphat456]

I think they've been flirting a bit... and he did jump the gun.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Sounds like a cheater