Is it normal to have a crush on a guy who is 22 when I’m 32?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been told I look mid 20’s and I’ve always liked guys older than me. But now I’m crushing on someone 10 years younger. So I feel weird about it. But I feel like if I was a 32 year old guy crushing on a 22 year old girl it would be more acceptable?

[Anonymous]

I've got a major crush on my husband, who is 13 years younger than me. We've got an incredible relationship and are way more compatible than any of my exes (all of whom are my age or older).

Don't let an age gap get in the way of a potentially amazing relationship. I'm sure glad I didn't! Besides, I've found there are actually a lot of perks/pros to dating/being with much younger guys. In a lot of ways him being so much younger might actually be a plus (I think that's the case for me).

[Tiptoetamm]

It's totally normal. Most of my ex's are 10 plus years older than me. I preferred older men especially in my early 20s. I didn't start dating closer to my age until I was 30 haha

[Avicenna]

You're both adults. I don't see a problem here. If you like him, ask him out.

[Robert_]

I would have loved to have a 32 crush on me when I was 22

[Berethor]

You feel like a cougar? yea it more normal if the guy is older, because of how fertility works.

[Tennessee_fan]

Nothing wrong with it as long as your both single your both of age so why not I'm 41 and I've found younger women good looking age is just a number to a point like I wouldn't date anyone under like 30 but don't mean you can't crush on someone

[Noodle_fan]

yeah , if it is normal for 32 yo guy to like 22 yo girl , why the opposite is not?

[Utopia1]

Not at all. Age is just a number. If you like him tell him and have fun

[Tellme]

Of course it’s normal! Love and attraction do not stick to birthdates but are free!

[Anonymous]

Historically no. But women today are smashing women stereotypes.

[Vikkrram]

Have you ever gave any hint to him?

[Asker]

No I don’t, or I don’t think so. I’ve been in work before when not working though and he’s noticed me from a distance and still waves at me, and there has been times on shift when he will do some things playfully. But I don’t know. And when he says bye to me after a shift there is a certain way he looks at me. I’m female though, I can see anything in the smallest of things lol I’m probably over looking some things. But I doubt I’ve given him hints. Maybe I should to get more of a idea?

[Vikkrram]

See as you older in this situation ideally you should take some steps to come closer to him maybe who knows he feels same for you...😊

[shortster]

Nothing wrong with that.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Yeah the guy has issues.