Do you think she decided to turn me down before the date?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl who rejected me. We got closer and after some time i asked her out she said yes. Then we kissed few times. Once I texted her if she she is free to go out and she was in work and i was like okay never mind and she asked me if i can go other day. But then her friends told me that they’re confused of her and she doesn’t know what she wants and that she is weird lately and she was also a bit distant than usually. So i asked her if she really wants to go and she said yes. So we finally went out and when we met for the first time after the date she was again a bit distant. Then i asked her if she’d go agin she said she is busy now and doesn’t want relationship now. Do you think she decided to dump me already before the date or what?

[Smoothing]

She has done one else in the picture most likely. So she is going to keep you at a distance until things go south. She probably liked him more than you. So when you went out, she wasn't in the picture yet. But now he is in the picture, so you are the back up plan.

I would say cut your losses and move on. If she still wants you, she will come back round but be wary of letting yourself be the rebound guy. It is not a hood place to be.

[Smoothing]

She has some one else not done one.

[Guy13]

You were a disappointment to her. Was kiss good?