I think she really reject my invitation when I asked her out?

[scott04sa22]

I've been going through her answer lately and trying to figure out on what her true answer really is but I know every girl is different. If this is her rejection then I'll totally understand and move on with my life. I just want to get it out of me that's all.

Man girls with their hints are so hard!!

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On Christmas day. If she doesn't respond then she's definitely not interested! then I'll move on.

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With all the information I gathered. It turns out she did rejected me and I also cancel her orders on furnitures she wants us to do. Thanks for helping me everyone.

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she ghosted me on the spot

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Yeah, "if I'm not busy" is a soft "no". Sorry, dude.

[scott04sa22]

Thank you so much.

[BustyNeedles]

She’s playing you. She’ll drag you along. Move on.

[scott04sa22]

No worries. I let her go. Thanks

[TessCasie]

At present your an option.
Cause I read it twice You did mention the date so her reply should have been 'ok so what time? or Ill let you know soon when the day is nearing what time we could meet?" BUT she didn't do nothing. I got questions for you : Did y'all ever meet in person? how long do you guys know each other? is it just online or in person?

[scott04sa22]

we met online back in 2017 and we seen each other off and on. From your opinion. sounds like too me it was a BIG rejection... 😔

[scott04sa22]

That explains the ghosting

[scott04sa22]

Thank you so much for helping me.

[TessCasie]

Your welcome ! don't worry someone will come along soon ! stay energetic and positive.

[scott04sa22]

I'm not sure if I should keep her number or not.

[scott04sa22]

We have a history too.

[scott04sa22]

Is it okay if I give her a goodbye text?

[TessCasie]

Just don't loose hope though. At present your an option but when the day is nearing she MIGHT message you :P fingers crossed!
I would suggest if you really like her text or call her up again to confirm a day before your birthday whether she is interested. IF then also she responds vaguely. Just pull yourself up and forget about her.

[TessCasie]

no just dont do that ! you ghost her too

[scott04sa22]

I don't know... Ever since today I've been uneasy. I wait a couple days and see if she replies. She should know I put a lot effort into her that's IF she cares... There was a time when she came over with a friend that friend stole my credit card without us knowing then the next time I saw her my pending date I told her what happened and she just give me a big shock and look directly towards me 😱 and we fixed that issue like a couple would. Each time I think about her my pending date I have feelings that she has a heart.

[TessCasie]

PLEASE save yourself and forget about her. She has sensed it you like her, she will take advantage of you along with her friends. I didn't know all these things. Thanks for writing it up. Smh! please don't even if she comes back don't !

[scott04sa22]

Alright. I'll let her go...

[ShadezMcgee]

Bro, she just said yes. It may be a few weeks a way, but she said yes. Roll with it and assume that it's going on unless she messages otherwise.

Just say "Great, see you at x time on the 27th! I will talk to you later" and leave it at that.

[scott04sa22]

Ok. Then I'm overthinking it then. I know she has a heart and with all ups and downs we shared from the past. I know our date is a week from today. I know she wants the both of us to have a good time.

[ShadezMcgee]

You attract what you fear, bud. I would suggest reading "How to Be a 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. He has a lot of youtube videos and that book can definitely help you in your situation. If you decide to read the book, read it 10 to 15 times like he says. No joke.

[scott04sa22]

I'll be ok. Also my date she wants me to stay 100% true to myself. 3% man or not.

[Anonymous]

Sounds pretty straight forward to me. She said ok.
If anything, you were kind of vague. She asks what's up and you talk about your birthday.
(Are you asking her out so you can get an extra birthday present? Some do that, you know.)

And social distancing is still a thing, people!!

[scott04sa22]

But did she rejected my invitation?

[Jmmmfi4]

She said if I'm not busy. That part concerns me. You gave her 3 weeks notice. If she really wanted to see you she'd make time.

[scott04sa22]

Same here, I concerns me too. I guess have to wait a couple days.

[scott04sa22]

It concerns me too.

[Redstang88]

Yeah I wouldn’t hold my breath on that one

[scott04sa22]

Thank you.

[Redstang88]

I mean she didn’t say no, but in my experience if you’re getting wishy-washy answers like that the odds aren’t good

[scott04sa22]

Ok. For the meantime I'll just wait a couple days and see if she answers.