His texts are becoming less frequent but every time I try to end the conversation he’ll continue to text. Why if he’s the one not putting effort in?

[Anonymous]

We used to text all day everyday and recently he came to visit me for a week. Everything was good after he left but the last week or so he texts less frequently and seems disinterested. I tried not texting back or ending the convo since he seems so distant but he’ll always text back. What’s going on?

[Guy13]

If this guy took a week off to come be with you then it sounds like he is serious. Whether he is serious about a committed relationship or serious about getting inside your pants only is up for debate. IF you guys did not have sex after that visit then everything makes sense...

It is also likely that he has something working in his home location. If sex with home location is better than sex abroad (where you are) then again this makes sense.

If there has been no sex then the interaction has lost its "buzz" or entertainment value...

[Asker]

We’ve had sex before when he came to visit as well as now. He already made plans to come again but his texting habits are just different which is why I’m wondering what’s wrong. He still sends flirty messages and all that but he just seems distant

[Guy13]

Guys hate texting especially if she’s an emotional bombardment Texter 💣 💣💣
Short sentences on one topic plrase.

[Rosexøxø]

He just wants sext or sex.

I’m terribly sorry ;-;

I’ve experienced similarly.

The dryness in their communication is because they feel dried in their pants region lol

They think you’ve lost interest because you don’t send stuff possibly, but any man who is not making an effort- I’d just leave so they can do that. Whatever “that” is, they they’re doing more, than talking engaged/ interactively with me. 🤷‍♀️

Best of all to you 🤜🤛

[Anonymous]

Did you have sex with him? If so, than that is all he was after.

[befuddledlady]

Tell him your concerns, and ask what's up