I told a guy who likes me that he needs to find someone who can be there for him. We live almost 2 hours apart & it won't work. He lashed out acting like he didn't like me only to calm down & say his feeling hasn't changed. He is confusing me because now he is going back to like nothing ever happened. My guess he was hurt? A lot of things he was saying and his attitude changed when I told him that.
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Just to be clear. We were never in a relationship. And I told him the truth because it wouldn't have been right to make him think there was a real chance between us. I told him 2 weeks after he told me how he felt. in my opinion it's not right to lie to someone to make them feel better. We have been friends for months and I really do care about him and would give him a chance but the distance and the fact we both have children make it impossible for me anyways.
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How long have you been talking together? I ask because this all started at some piont, and you knew he lived 2 hours away from the start. So if that's now an issue for you, then yoy should of said that from the start.
Maybe you did and he didn't get the hint, or maybe you didn't think it was that type if situation for him. But apparently after talking for sometime he thought it was something of possibility for the two of you.
So why would he of thought that, and how long did it take for you to tell him its not going to work out?
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So what are you getting out of this friendship?
Men hate the truth.
Maybe you're a piece of shit
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