Guys, help am I being to forward?

[Anonymous]

I was at a party with some friends this weekend and a mutual friend told me a guy I liked (we have no each other sometime to say hi) had told him he liked me too. We ended up kissing and had a lovely evening. I took his number and messaged him the next day. We spoke on text both said what a great night it was etc. We haven’t spoken since but this weekend we are both attending a friends birthday party and everyone is staying in a country house together. He will arrive a day before me, should I message him on my way and say I am looking forward to seeing him again? Or should I wait to actually see him again?

[SueShe]

I personally would wait because otherwise, it makes you look as if you want something from him. Why potentially ruin a surprise.

Are you expecting something from that person or are you hoping that something will happen during this get together in the country house?

It would be so obvious that you want something from him if you call him ahead of the meeting just to say that you are looking forward to seeing him. It could not be more obvious to someone that knows how to interpret this call or to read between the lines.

Just let it be a surprise to him when you show up.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Message him, less another girl catch his eye. You should make it clear you want to date him too, if that's the goal, guys hate it and I meam WE FUCKING HATE IT when people beat around the bush. You don't have to rush to the point it's uncomfortable for you, but definitely make intentions clear.

Best of luck, and have fun at the party!😁

[Guy13]

Wait and let the excitement build. Sexy but not junk hanging out everywhere. Wear something that cuts on waist. Prudish but not quite Nun. Christmas lapel... I love my gift lapel. I would consider buying the blinking Christmas bulb necklace and breaking it out when your Buzz hits... OR when you know he has one...

[Avicenna]

If you like him, message him in advance

[Truth0225]

I think messaging him will set the tone if you plan to be closer to him

[msc545]

Message him. Men need encouragement.

[tfan1]

Wait 🙂