Guys, How do I proceed from here on out?

[Anonymous]

We were in the gym, and I told everyone that he is the sexiest guy in the gym. He got a bit embarrassed but was really happy and laughed. Then started walking around the room unable to focus on his workout and ran to the bathroom. Did he get aroused? I look a bit like Claudia Shiffer. I'm 5'11. His friend that likes me told me that he likes me too, but then laughed and said that he doesn't. I didn't feel this to be true. Also, because I don't think that my crush speak too much English.

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I mean his friend likes me and at some point I told him to stop staring at me because he was making me feel really uncomfortable. When I told my crush that he was the sexiest guy in the gym, I felt a lot of anger and hate from some guys in the room. I'm too sensitive so I can feel this without even looking at anyone in the room.

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Should I believe his so-called friend that told me unconvincingly that my crush doesn't like me? Also, why did my crush run around the room like a crazy bunny instead of working out when he found out, and then, ran to the bathroom?

[spartan55]

My don't you have an active imagination. He ran to the bathroom because he needed to use it. It wasn't because he was aroused, that's absurd.

[Asker]

Okay. I just got that feeling. Maybe I was aroused by telling him this and seeing his reaction. :) So maybe I am projecting. But I think it's a bit odd that he started walking around and couldn't focus on lifting, and then ran to the bathroom.

[spartan55]

I think you need to stop micro analyzing his every move, it sounds very stalkerish.

[Asker]

Well, I am a girl, and I like him and want to understand. What's so stalkerish about that? You sound very judgmental and don't seem to understand women at all. Thanks for nothing.

[spartan55]

It's because you are watching every little thing he does and trying to 'understand' him. It's not going to help you, but what would I know. judgmental... uh no?
But you're right, I don't understand women. I'm hoping one day I can get my first girlfriend. I'm sure you know WAY more than me.

[Asker]

Well, what can I say - people are different and I am an analytical person and like to understand others and their actions. Hence I am here. That's why I don't appreciate your judgment or labels. I simply asked for other guy's take. That's all. I think understanding others or trying to understand them will help me very much. Understanding others and then acting accordingly will without a doubt improve relationships and make you a better person. So perhaps you should try it sometime? Nobody compared my knowledge to yours. In fact, I would prefer it if you knew more than me, this way I could actually get a decent opinion/advice.

[spartan55]

I gave you decent advice, you didn't want to hear it. 'understanding' someone's actions changes nothing, if it does please send enlighten me. Also, understand what judgement actually is, and what labels actually are before accusing me of using those. I said you were micro analyzing him to that's neither. You didn't like it so called me judgmental...😂😂

[Asker]

You think you gave decent advice.

[spartan55]

Sure thing pink anon. I guarantee my MHO dwarfs yours, so run along now.

[In_Trance]

Not a good thing to be going around telling everyone

[Asker]

What do you mean by that? What's not good? His friend was next to me and told me that my crush is the biggest guy in the gym, so I decided to say that he is also the sexiest one. :)

[spartan55]

@In_Trance
So clueless..."what's not good?" Uh... everything?

[Iron_Man]

Your to young to date

[Asker]

I'm not. I forgot to change the age here. Lmao.

[Avicenna]

Ask him out

[Asker]

No, that's not a good idea. I already conveyed my interest by making it pretty clear through my body language and also looking him in the eyes and smiling. Besides, telling him that he is sexy. Or rather telling his friend when he was nearby. If he doesn't make a move, then he is not strong enough for me or isn't interested. I don't like to ask guys out because I feel like if the guy doesn't have the guts or the courage to do that himself, then it won't work out in the long run. Or he simply isn't interested so why make him uncomfortable?