This guy at my moms job randomly came up to me and said hi 😀 I noticed you sit here a lot what does that mean he walked all the way over to ask that?

[Feeshbrains]

Phew I can add more GREAT LOL basically my mom works at a university the guy came and stayed at the end if the room and said hi I turned bc I was sitting and said hello 😀 he proceeded to walk up to me {ig he was trying to see if I was interested in having a convo} so he came up to me and said I noticed you sit here a lot I said oh yeah my mom works here he said whose your mom? I told him and he smiled and said ahh I know her I was too captivated by his eyelashes but at the end of the convo he told me his name and where in the building he works like detailed told me hahaaaaaaa maybe I'm looking to into it or maybe he was just being friendly? Curious? I don't know But I've never had that happen before no one has come up to me at her job before and asked me so boldly I was so scared LOL like I was so nervous omg any takes will be super helpful from anyone tbh sorry this is all over the place xD my mom said she was going to just take me in the room where he works and introduce me to him bc I'm so impatient and want to alk to him again I'm just awkward as you can see from this whole post I don't know how to talk to men LOL y'all scare me

[SueShe]

That type of encounter should raise your immediate concern. This guy has been observing you for a while and is actively trying to pick you up. This is a huge red flag and you should keep your distance, mainly in view of the fact that you seem to be a little puzzled by his attitude.

That is how trouble starts. This guy is a player and has noticed that you are by yourself. You are the ideal prey for him.

Next time, he is going to try to smart talk to you and if you are not careful, he will fill your brain with seemingly innocent compliments that will confuse you and that is when he has you hooked because of your lack of experience.

Just distance yourself from these kind of people.

[Feeshbrains]

I didn't think of it like that :0 he's a really kind person based around what my mom told me people have said about him I thought he was just curious haha but I will definitely keep my guard up can never be too careful with people's intentions.

[RedInnocent68]

And why is it such a red flag? In case it avoided your notice, you are here because two people got together… perhaps exploring that might help understand why you’re this way?

[SueShe]

@RedInnocent68 It is a red flag because the guy is very likely a predator and that someone inexperienced should be warned. As simple as that.

[RedInnocent68]

That doesn’t seem very aggressive or like predation to me…

[Monalisa77]

This is what confuses me about this guy i like who had been flirting, he wasn't making any compliments the closests thing he djd was laugh at something silly i said. So u say if theyre saying all nice thinfs about u theyre definitely using u?

[RedInnocent68]

@Monalisa77, @sueshe is a female incel. Difficult to take any of them seriously…

[BoopBoopBeep]

Get help.

[Feeshbrains]

@BoopBoopBeep I thibk @sueshe is just tryna look out cos they're own experiences which I do appreciate ^^

[RedInnocent68]

You’re a kind and thoughtful girl, @Feeshbrains 😔

[BoopBoopBeep]

@RedInnocent68 I second that

[Feeshbrains]

@RedInnocent68 you're so nice !!

[Feeshbrains]

@BoopBoopBeep hhahaa

[DaBiggestBird]

Trying to show you his Yu-Gi-Oh card collection. Lmao, almost every time I went to the Walmart all the Pokemon cards would be gone, Yu-Gi-Oh would always be there. Ain’t nobody got time for that respectfully. Can’t wait to obliterate all them other TCGs.

[Feeshbrains]

Omg I never liked Yu-Gi-Oh growing up I disliked it so much haha but I thought he was just curious? It was so random omg

[DaBiggestBird]

Could just be a friendly encounter, some specimens do like to talk just to talk. Like Son Goku’s passion for battle. My prediction algorithm says he likes you but I’m not sure.

[Feeshbrains]

😆 😂 that was funny! But yeah I wonder if he does tbh he was very polite and made a whole Lotta eye contact is eye contact a big thing?

[DaBiggestBird]

You bet your sweet bippy it is, body language in its prime. Animals use it a lot like cats, they’re Giga Chads. If he locks his sights with yours, scan the inside of his eyes like a transformer scanning a car. Try to see what he feels or might be thinking.

[RedInnocent68]

You sound, fascinated by him. He likes you and wants to give you an opportunity to ‘run into’ him around his building to see if you also like him, so he’s not pestering you acting like a creep.

[Feeshbrains]

He seems so nice!!! I would not mind running into him LOL my mom's like I'll just take you to his section and introduce you cos he didn't ask my name I wonder what that means cos he didn't ask for my name

[RedInnocent68]

Doesn’t mean anything. He feels stupid he forgot. He must have it bad for you… You must be pretty hot! 😉

[Feeshbrains]

That's actually crazy LOL I seriously thought he was just curious i can't stop thinking about it LOOOOOL it's been like 4 days now..

[RedInnocent68]

He is curious, about what color panties you wear? 😉😂 Seriously though, what’s stopping you? Guaranteed he’s been fixated on your encounter for 4 days now too!

[Feeshbrains]

OMG THAT WOULD BE AMAZING IF HE WAS he is so handsome but I HOPE he's BEEN THIBKING ABOUT ME HHAAHAHA and I'll see him Monday or Tuesday I hope haha my mom's gonna just introduce us ND be like oh this is my daughter she is indeed lookinggg for a husband XDD

[Feeshbrains]

I also did wonder if he was just curious as to why I was sitting there LOL like my friend was like oh it could have just been curiosity and nothing more I'm like BOOOO... DONT SAY THAT

[Feeshbrains]

why I was sitting there LOL like my friend was like oh it could have just been curiosity and nothing more I'm like BOOOO... DONT SAY THAT

[RedInnocent68]

Honestly, not sure you should wait for Mom. I mean, how weird is that? It’s not like she your matchmaker or anything. You know where he is. What’s stopping you from wandering by and saying, ‘hey, so this is your building? Want to show me around? By the way, I’m… you’re,… right?’

[Feeshbrains]

I'm shy LOL LIKE very shy it's easier to get introduced maybe I dunno hah

[RedInnocent68]

So shy you need your mommy to hook you up with guys that obviously want to get you? Not awkward at all… 😂 Seriously, better to just go find him. You know his name from your mom, right?

[Feeshbrains]

Oh hushhhh I have no experience 😂😂😂 and yeah he told me his name but my friends are like oh he's just being friendly if he was flirting he would have asked for your number but I live in a like semi relgious country so asking for phone numbers is a no LOL

[RedInnocent68]

Aaah! That makes more sense now…

[Feeshbrains]

YAH but my friends are like he's just being friendly I'm like but why tell me all that info?

[RedInnocent68]

Yeah, I expect they’re just jealous of you… 😉

[Feeshbrains]

Hahaha naaah they just don't want me to get my feels hurt but I am trying my best not to think about him rn

[RedInnocent68]

Doesn’t seem like that’s going too well for you 😂

[Feeshbrains]

It's not at all LSKSKSS I can't get hom out of my head

[AngryCarl2]

He's definitely interested. Guys don't go to the trouble of approaching girls they're not interested in. Hard to tell if he's a genuine guy or a Pick Up Artist, but you could always ask your Mom.

[Feeshbrains]

Ooooo I didn't think of that bc we've never talked before this was the first convo I've had with him

[Likes2drive]

He obviously was interested in you and trying to make conversation, you probably should pursue it if you’re interested

[Feeshbrains]

Oh I will hahaah indeed I will he was so sweet he made so much eye contact I was nervous

[FenixG45]

It means he wants inside your pants!

[Feeshbrains]

Waaaat nah I don't think he does 😆

[FenixG45]

Why not?

[Feeshbrains]

Uhhh I dunno xD I just have a hunch

[Anonymous]

You should know by now what men are after.

[Feeshbrains]

I have 0 experience with them :') it's a learning process

[Anonymous]

It means he's been checking you out, lol.

[Feeshbrains]

That's crazy bc I fall asleep when I sit there too LOL he's seen that then ig me falling asleep

[Opinion Owner]

That is strange.

[Feeshbrains]

Oh? How so tbh I just thought be was curious and wanted to ask me why but I mean he literally stopped and said hello and i think was checking to see if i was busy then when i responded he came up to me like no one's done that before haha

[Anonymous]

He likes you