What’s the reason a guy always gets friend zoned after a few dates?

[Anonymous]

He’s boring personality wise

He’s not taking it in a flirty direction towards sex and then maintaining that

He’s physically unattractive

[kylee2437]

All of the above. I do think it’s a huge turn off when a guy doesn’t try to make romantic advances after sometime. My last “guy friend” fumbled me because of exactly that. I knew he was trying to make it more than friends but his ego of thinking I would make the first move is exactly why he got friend zoned

[Asker]

Interesting. What do you consider romantic advances?

[kylee2437]

Simply going for a kiss

[Asker]

And then maintaining that?

[Anonymous]

Unclean.

Smelly.

Not well-groomed.

Rude.

Bad attitude.

Uninteresting.

Not fun.

One of these is usually the reason.

[Asker]

What if it’s always accompanied with a message saying you’re a great person and I’ve had a lot of fun on our dates but I think more as friends. Or something along those lines.

[Anonymous]

D. It's not him, it's her.

Too many guys blame themselves for defective women.

Fellas just worry about being a solid guy. and if she wants to walk let her walk and let some other deserving benefit from you.

[Asker]

Have you had many relationships in your life?

[Crowferret]

A & C except I don't have to date the person to see that.

[Asker]

How do you mean?

[Crowferret]

I don't have to date someone to see if they're unattractive or boring

[Asker]

Really?

[Crowferret]

You can't tell if someone unattractive before you date them?

[TacosRAwesome]

In this case, I'll go with A or B because he is getting dates.

[Asker]

I suppose A and B could go hand in hand?

[TacosRAwesome]

Yeah they could. A could mean he's not very personable and B could mean he reminds me of a little brother.

[Anonymous]

Could be all three reasons really.