Why is it that if you’re a bitch people see you as hot and stuck up but if you’re too sweet your beauty gets overlooked?

[Anonymous]

If you’re too nice people gaslight you to believe you’re meh

[Rockstarrrrr]

Because most people think too nice means you're spineless or sensitive and needy... That all translates to " weak "... But you don't have to be a bitch and full of yourself all the time... You just need the healthy amount of ego... And of course, boundaries...

[Andres77]

You’re around the wrong people if your good qualities are not appreciated

[Guy13]

I can’t relate 🤷🏻‍♂️ People are insecure is all I can say snd overly competitive in their sinful nature.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Reverse psychology bitches are for one night stand nice girls are marraige material.

Yeah when somebody serves themselves on platter are more likely to be taken for granted

That's how it is

[SnowedIn]

Happens to men too. I don't have an answer for why, though.

[Shy_Steve]

It's like when I'm nice to People, I usually get ignored, But other Guys that are loud and obnoxious are usually talking with Girls.

[loveslongnails]

I believe your assessment is incorrect. Being bitchy doesn't make you "hot" at all - it just makes you conceited or unfriendly and nothing to do with being beautiful.

[shortster]

I would ignore those kinds of people. People who are sweet are more beautiful than anyone else.

[BoobMan]

I don't think that's true. Because "hot" and "sweet" are assessed by two separate departments in the brain!

[Guardian45]

Cuz no one likes a b! tch!