Would you let your girlfriend wear a tight pant or leggings outside?

[Anonymous]

If it’s tight , would you?

[Aerissa_Jade]

The moment a SO tells me what I have to wear, is the moment it ends... because the controlling in the relationship isn't going to end with just that. It will advance (or perhaps already has) to other aspects.

Before long he'll be telling me who I can be friends with, when I can see my family and where I have to go get a job.

Don't ever let someone control you like that, it is abusive and a terrible relationship.

Yep, I've been there done that with controlling men before.

Never again.

[Quigly]

She could do that,

Many girls wear leggings and wear a long shirt so they are not showing off their ass to the whole world and that's fine. Many girls prefer to slip a pair of jeans over top before going out. That's fine and probably a good idea too,

If the girl I was with felt the need to show her ass to the world I would question the relationship and I would probably feel that It's the sign of an insecure, arrogant and abusive personality. "Attention whore".

The right girl for me has some modesty and judgement.

[NathanDavis]

I certainly do not own her... so it is not up for me to decide what they can do or can't do about their adult lives and choices

other than that, I am not a manipulating nor insecure partner, and these things do not really represent an issue to me, trust is a must and I've never lacked that trust in all my previous relationships either

[WonderBell99]

Lol "let"? The moment my partner starts controlling what I wear, it is the end of the relationship for me. I'm not going to let anyone dictate what I wear. He could chip in his suggestions on what might look better, but that's about it. It is ultimately my decision. If I want to wear a leggings outside, I will and he will have no say in that matter! Of course, I dress appropriately for the occasion and do not wear provocative clothing.

[peterrezeeek]

I agree with you on one side and disagree with you on the other. Not your partner's choice, but be understanding. You must have a question in the same question, you have to put a question in the same question. openness about anything

[WonderBell99]

“He could chip in his suggestions on what might look better, but that's about it. It is ultimately my decision.”

Never said i wasn’t open to hearing him out. 🙂

[peterrezeeek]

ok thank u ❤️
no problem it's just an opinion

[WonderBell99]

@peterrezeeek No worries, and agreed :)

[WonderBell99]

Thanks for your perspective, appreciate it

[peterrezeeek]

u r welcome ❤️

[AviatorTom]

No one has that kind of "let" control over another. If she wanted to wear something I didn't like, I might voice my opinion, but it's her decision what she wears, not mine.

Specifically for this question, if she's wearing tight pants or leggings, I would probably ask her if they're comfortable, but otherwise it's fine for her to wear them... if that's what she wants.

[OlderAndWiser]

My grlfriend doesn't need my permission to do anything. She is an adult female and does what she wants. At most, I would express my concern.

[snowboarder720]

Yes, I’d be fine with it.
Even if I wasn’t I know that I don’t have control over her and I don’t want to be controlling of exactly what she wears. All women have the freedom of expression and should wear whatever they want.
It’s really how society reacts is where shit needs to be controlled.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

It isn’t a choice any guy can make. No man should or ever should have been able to choose what his woman wears. That is her choice and she might choose to ask his opinion or suggestion bud no man should have that much power over another person.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

I don't care what she wears, I know she's coming home to me, and if she doesn't, well it's her loss and my gain.
Lot "letting" a partner to dress the way they want is controlling and insecure.
My ex didn't like me going to the gym because of the fear of me meeting someone else, it didn't work out between us after 4 y

[Noahzaid]

No, Because I don’t like anyone looking at my girl in any sexual way.

It’s in a man’s nature to feel jealous.

I won't force her because I don’t own her but I would leave her.

[soe11]

Entirely up to her whatever, however, whenever she wear any outfits, but I will support her, bythaway she wear mostly tight fitting figure hugging and reveling and exposing outfits.

Whatever others views on her, I love my girlfriend as wear.

[Walrus_au]

"Let"? If you are in a relationship where you have to be given permission to wear something then. you are being abused and get the fuck out! each person belongs too themselves, and if they made it too adult and have the basic cognitave fuction too make their own decision, then there is no 'let' outside of abuse.

[DrBanana]

No and they shall be locked into the basement of reflection!!!


Kidding aside I can’t and don’t want to control what people do even in a relationship but if we are going to some where there is either a dress code or a formal gathering I would strongly recommend a change of close.

[AimeeKyle]

Is this really even an option (to not allow them) or something that I should be worried about…. In short, no. Others will notice/look at whomever, whenever…. although the outfit might draw more attention I t’s up to your significant other (and personally for that matter) to do the right thing even when confronted with alternative options….. and if they don’t, it probably wasn’t meant to be anyway.

[dustybiker]

I wouldn’t want to. They aren’t comfy. Tight and confining, hot. Some I wear under gear when extremely cold look good but only my family gets to see those. Mine don’t ride up my ass, hardly that tight either.

[Lionman95]

I don't like it but I can't make her change either. I'd tell her my opinion and but I can't control her behaviour, I just wouldn't compliment her or wouldn't tell her that she looked good in the outfit.

[DoctorSex]

Unfortunately I think kidnapping is stilling illegal lol there's nothing you can do to stop a woman who wishes to wear what she likes😆. I'd greatly prefer if she didn't though.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[SnowedIn]

"let"? I don't control what she wears and would never tell a girlfriend or my wife what she could and couldn't wear. Same thing for my kids with a few exceptions. But, to answer your question, yes I would.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Of course, partners don't own each other. My boyfriend doesn't have the right to control me and vice versa. The relationship would be over though if that happened.

[MementoMori777]

Yea they are pants, I'm not the type of guy to be strict with what a girl wears, I live in a tropical state and the weather can get unbearable so girls showing lots of skin is common and it's considered normal here

[20yearsolder]

She can wear anything she wants. I don't own her, I don't control what you wears. If you don't trust her then you probably shouldn't be together

[loveslongnails]

"Let her"? LOL You try telling my SO what she can or can't wear and you'll regret it. On the other hand, if I told her it wasn't her best look, she'd trust me to have her best interests at heart and she'd consider it strongly.

[Anonymous]

It's her choice I would have no say in what she wears. All I can do is comment if something maybe doesn't look right or wouldn't be appropriate for the place they are going depending on what it is or the weather.
But it's also about wording it so not to upset her. The fact is tho I wouldn't have an actual day cna only provide an opinion.

[USLegionary]

Yes. Though it's her fault if I decide to take her from behind and slap her ass when she bends over

[Anonymous]

If her looked like that chances are I wouldn’t be w her. Too flat. If she had a fat ass, nice, heart shaped ass own pulsing mind. I’d probably slap it a few times. I wouldn’t mind because I know she’s going home w me.

[User3191989]

Well, noone has "control" over what someone wears but, i get where you're going with this. And yes, of course, if I did have control of what she wore, I would let her do whatever she wanted

[Jdjfjcjj]

Surprised you used the word let.
Leggings are fine but some girls overwear them and have some bad hygiene

[AngryCarl]

I've never had a girlfriend who was okay with me telling her what she could or couldn't wear, even if I was inclined to do so. So the answer I suppose is yes. I would "let" her. In fact I wouldn't think twice about it.

[D-Pad_Chad]

No. That's my ass to enjoy not the world's, go change.

[FunkyMonkee]

Doesn't everybody? They're skin tight! It's, basically, the same as wearing a pair of footless tights and nothing else.

[spartan55]

I don't ever 'let' my wife/girlfriend wear certain clothes... she's not the hired help ffs.

[AngelOfLight258]

If a guy has an issue with me wearing something too revealing in public, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

[DryGermanGuy]

I would not be together with someone wearing these eyesores (outside of the gym). 🤬

[Anonymous]

Yes.
Maybe I wouldn't like the kind of girl who wears those though, but that has to do with her way of being, an inner thing, and not what she wears and where.

[lucas262]

We live In a time men can't hold women accountable for anything.

people will shame you if you wet boundaries in a relationship but if shew doing it you need to respect her. Yea sure

[TroyDT2]

Would I "let?" I am not a totalitarian, so there is no 'let." Would I prefer it? Depends upon what we are doing.

[fonduegirl]

I'll quote my mom on this : "over my dead body "

[DavidRaul]

Why does she need my permission to do that. Its up to her

[Amur8711]

Let? 🤣

All I can do is advise not to wear certain things, she has to decide if she agrees or not. When it comes to leggings I wouldn't say anything to here because I think its fine.

[FootfetishistBoy]

I wear what I want, she wears what she wants. That goes without saying.

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t care. But if I spot her flirting with dudes flirting with her, she’s done.

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

When you treat your girl right, you will never have to worry about losing her to someone else.

[AdithyaR]

Let? She's the one wearing it, how can I let her wear it? I don't own her.

[Fa1con]

I dont really have nor want any control over what a person wears from day to day.

[Andres77]

She wears what she wants. She’s a big girl and can dress herself

[peterrezeeek]

she wear wht she want that is not my choice..
but she has to be respected anyway i trust her so its ok

[Paul09]

Not my choice but hers. She wants my opinion I'll day what I think. But that doesn't bother me.

[Fuentes]

If I had a girlfriend, who i have to tell what to do & she can't figure it out by common sense. It means she's dumb and I would dump her.

[Anonymous]

Nope! If a girl is with a guy and still needs the desperate sexual attention by wearing cloth body paint to expose her body, she isn’t really your girl. it’s just your turn.

[altaboy]

I am afraid I don't have that authority, nor do I want it.

[zagor]

No, I would grab her by the hair and drag her back to her closet.

[BJP21]

Sure. Whats wrong with that? I like seeing the defined curves of my potential SOs body.

[Anonymous]

Let her? She's her own person. I might tell her if I think she looks like a street walker though.🤣

[Pterodon]

I don’t have any control over that nor want to

[Snakeyes7]

Who said I have the power to "let" her do anything?

[nawtee_me]

Absolutely, I see nothing wrong with it. At least it is covering everything

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I like those. Makes a woman look good.

[Twalli]

Yes. I don't care if other guys are sexually attracted towards her

[noluvdavv]

yea as long as she not a baddie and dudes always hittin on her but tbh I really wouldn't care

[eimandahelp]

yes its her body its not her fault men are looking its their eyes they need to control

[jjj101010]

It’s not up to me, I don’t control other people

[Paige90]

Why would I not wear leggings?

[Apple1996]

I think most guys are okay with leggings

[Agape93]

She can wear what she wants