My girlfriend lied to me?

[Anonymous]

So me M21 Netherlands was lied to by my ldr girlfriend Slovakia. We've been together for a few months now, user was ID verified 19, she just told me she lied about her she literally just told me she's turning 17 in 3 months. She also told me her mom was okay with it. I feel lied to... What do i do

[WonderBell99]

You could get into serious legal trouble if you continue this relationship with her. Look up the laws in your country and hers. Not only that, she lied to you about her age which is unacceptable, putting your reputation in jeopardy. What else has she lied about? Cheating, lying etc is never OK in a relationship. A relationship which started on lies is not a real one.

The ONLY answer here is to break up with her. She knows what she did. She fucked up.

[Guy13]

Those are surprises that no one likes to hear. Sucks when they lie too.

[Asker]

I literally have no idea what to do now

[Guy13]

There's not much you can do except step back and try not to say anything that you will regret. I like to reflect back in cases like this, 17, huh? No reminding of earlier age statement etc. Get her to run with it. Make sense?

[Asker]

I already asked her why she did this and why she was id verified and stuff

[Guy13]

I would have to keep some distance... grieve a little bit... think through it. Of course I would be receptive to her if she contacted but I would not be rushing about to do it.

[Asker]

Yeah damn sucks having to dump something like this. She should have been honest before we got to know eachoter. I wouldn't even have talked to her

[Guy13]

Yeah, I am pretty sure that she detected that you would not pursue if you knew the truth. Decision time and given it is LDR, it would not be a difficult one for me...

[Anonymous]

LDR is not a real relationship.