What's wrong with this guy?

[Anonymous]

Well this hallway crush of mine (at school) figured out I liked him but we don't really talk (yes it's weird but don't blame me) and after that he texted a mutual friend about this same issue and was like "L likes me?" and my friend was like "Who lied to you man?" he then went on and said "tell her not to worry I won't tell a soul" but then he won't reject me like why isn't he making this easier for me and him both? I know he doesn't like me back but I think not rejecting me and leaving me like shit is a bit selfish of him?

He's a bit selfish

Nope he's not you just want a reason to unlike him

[Summeroflove]

If he doesn’t want you. He needs to be direct and give you closure without being nasty. Long as you’re good about how you did it.

If he isn’t into you. Leave him be. If he likes you. He will come around. Some people though seem to get a thrill out of rejecting someone the worst way they can

[Asker]

Atp I'm scared to even make an interaction with him but he keeps staying silent and it's been a year and I feel like I'm just trying to find reasons to blame him for my unhappiness

[Summeroflove]

If he said he doesn’t like you. Then leave it be.

If you ain’t talked to him. Then go ask him out directly

[Asker]

He didn't say that and thank you

[Summeroflove]

Ohhhh…. So he knows you like him. Bur agreed to keep it secret? Okay. I wouldn’t be angry at him for that.

As I said talk to him and if he turns you down. You tried and have closure

[Asker]

Yes tbh I was relieved about that too and surprisingly he stayed true to his words

And yes I'll try and once again thank you so much

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome! Hope it goes well.

[Guy13]

Yep, he’s having a good time at your expense. You know though so move on. No issues here…

[Avicenna]

Yeah, that’s messed up

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I wouldn't waste my time on him.