Any tips to regain self-confidence after being cheated?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé cheated on me for six months after a lomg term relationship between us
He always criticized my body and that I was skinny (my weigh is 52 and my height is 166).
I no longer trust my look or my body
I trusted him a lot and never doubted him
I want him to regret it

[loveslongnails]

Listen to those telling you it's on him, not you, for his actions. As for your body, are you good with it? If you like it, that's what counts. If you don't, change what you can and accept the rest. Someone else will love you as you are. Make room for that person to come into your life.
The best revenge is to live a good life - without him. It sounds like he already regrets it, but trust is gone on your part. What else do you want from him? He groveled, you said "no I can't trust you", and you left. What's left?

[Jdjfjcjj]

Wait are you still with him? If you going to try and work it out, push out wedding date if set.

Only way it will work, is if he shows he's truly sorry for what he's done, asks for forgiveness, is honest about how long, who it was with, etc, offers to do certain things like removing passwords, any bad apps, proved he's broke things off with other person, etc

He hadn't even apologized yet?

[Jdjfjcjj]

I may have read that wrong and you aren't with him anymore. Disregard if that's the case

[Asker]

He was traveling in another country when he cheated on me. We were in a long distance relationship (but we spent 5 years together before he left).
And he came and confessed to me
He was very remorseful and begged me to forgive him and cried a lot
He said he did it because of loneliness in another country
But the wedding date was soon, and I no longer trusted him, so I left him.. i still love him but i couldnt trut him anymore

[melanieeeB]

Be aware that it's not you, it's on him. You did nothing wrong. And also it's not all men but just your ex.
I would say go out, make yourself ready and enjoy having some fun, flirting and hanging out with friends and family

[FilmGuy93]

The biggest thing is to remind yourself that people cheat because they are trying to fill a void within themselves. Just give yourself time to heal and understand that getting cheated on is not a reflection of who you are as a person.

[Wise4myage]

Start doing nice things for yourself and others. And make sure you never talk to him again.

[In_Trance]

Figure out what went wrong and learn from the mistake (s)