How to deal with crushing on your best friend who’s a girl who has a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I just want the feelings to go away I would never try anything and I value you her way to much as a friend to even risk it it’s just hard sometimes

[DribbleGodCurt]

You never know, give it some time and she probably will like you and break up with her boyfriend if you're someone she likes and was shy to admit it, that happens a lot just admit your feelings and if she stays your friend she likes you if she stops talking to you than you're just a friend to her and always will be and it's best to leave her alone.

[Coyote12]

This... this guy knows.

[Grgsmith088]

Divert your mind onto another girl! it always works. Only attraction of a new girl stops the attraction of an old one. This way you guys can still be friends too, and you will also see if she gets jealous ( but don't make this your main goal please)

[WhitneySnow]

If she has a boyfriend you’re right to bury your feelings for now

[Angelo75]

This is exactly why it is so difficult for girls and guys to be good friends.
Somehow a lot of times one of them ends up having a crush on the other one and it becomes one-sided.

It hurts too much to pull away cuz you miss him/her both as a friend as a possible-crush. But on the other hand it hurts so much to see him/her in arms of another person.

Your best option would be to just distance yourself indeed. Otherwise it's gonna be just torture.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

You go away an find other girls. Also I hope you learnt your lesson and never become "best friends" with an attractive girl again.

[ProVox]

Distance yourself. It'll only get worse and you'll be torturing yourself. If it's meant to be, you'll come together.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're breaking the Bro Code. If you were actually following the Code, you wouldn't have this problem. You wouldn't have this emotional distress. So you brought this on yourself.

[FilmGuy93]

Put some distance in the friendship and find a new hobby

[Blueeyes81]

You distance yourself and find another. It'll only get worse until you're driven to the point of having step away for your sanity's sake.

[Anonymous]

Find a girl to bang that's hotter than she is. You'd be AMAZED at how much that helps. In fact, she may be able to hook you up with a hottie!

[USLegionary]

Best to stop simping

[Wise4myage]

You move on to other girls.