Are women worth the effort of pursuing?

[Anonymous]

It's coming to a point where id rather blow my head off with a shotgun than try and pursue women

[MCheetah]

F*ck no! It literally took me my ENTIRE twenties to learn that. The sad part is, most men with bas experiences dating modern women, never learn that lesson. Most modern women ask for the universe and more, and are never satisfied, no matter how much you give them, and what do they bring to the table besides their bodies? More problems, that is!

But I'm not pulling this out of my ass, every single one of my male friends back home in the US (all tall, handsome men with decent jobs) are married or about to be married and not act like they have the life sucked out of them. I admit, I sometimes felt jealous of them, due to their height and six packs, all getting them women. But they admit, THEY'RE jealous of ME! My short, ugly 180 cm dark ass women universally find unattractive looking. They act like they're doing hard time in prison now, all their life energy zapped out of them and gone, and despite never breaking up with them, beg me not to get engaged or into long term relationships.

And then, I even see married men on GAG echoing the same sentiments. Like one-third of the married men on GAG say the same thing as them.

Believe me; I'm a more romantic man than most men on this site and in general. But like I said, it took my entire twenties to learn not to make myself vulnerable and open myself up for more depression and destruction of my self-esteem from so many sh*tstain women out there who love nothing more than act like they're the center of the universe.

There are LOTS of good women out there. But good women who are actually single, heterosexual, and on the market, looking for someone? You have a better chance of winning the lottery twice in a row.

My advice is to do what I'm doing. Don't go full MGTOW yet, but don't put in any effort, either. "If someone is meant to be, they're meant to be." That's what people say. But I'm not going to waste anymore of my life pursuing women or chasing them. F*CK. THAT. NOISE!

So in that regards, dealing with Tinder and Match. com and chatting up rude c*nts in public who'll curse at you just for saying Hi to them? No. They are not worth it, in my opinion. But only you can make your own decisions in life.

Good luck finding a good woman in 2023 among all the lesbians, transwomen, feminists, and whores.

[inhua]

only if she is worth it which is like finding a diamond buried under the sands on the beach. finding it isn't impossible but it's highly unlikely you'll find it first before someone else does and that someone may not use the diamond for the right reasons.

it's unfortunate for those guys who bust their asses off for years to reach that bare minimum unrealistic standards modern women have only to be confronted by a sea of emotional baggage, kids from another man, spoilt entitled attitude and a body count number higher than a phone number. he gets peer pressured to take one of these undesirable options off the market and if he chooses to wait out until he finds the one who meets his criteria, he gets labeled as insecure or a creep or any derogatory term.

[Faith18letsgo]

Fair enough. I like the chase but that’s just me. I’m gay, and I mostly end up asking out girls I’m already friends with and even if they say no we usually stay friends so even if we don’t date it’s still worthwhile and they stay in my life.

[Asker]

Your mistake is thinking the dating life is the same between men and women

[Faith18letsgo]

I don’t think it’s the same. I think lesbian dating culture is better and more fun.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Sounds like you should take a break or stop completely then.
Don't mindlessly pursue women, that just makes you get where you are now.

Take a breather and get in contact with yourself again. Don't rush it

[LimitedBenefits101]

Listen dude, women can't protect you, women can't love you, Only reason a man needs a woman is to have SEX, that's the only thing we need from them, and sex can be bought, these 304s would do ANYTHING for money.

So focus on yourself and build yourself up.

[Kori1236]

It’s worth it if you succeed and find someone you can imagine yourself with. Relationships take work from both sides one can’t slack while the other does all the perusing

[Asker]

Men arguably have to do more. But it all sucks

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

The effort is worth if and when you succeed. If you don't succeed, then focus on something else.

[chicosuave]

no they are not. they are too shallow and they are never happy of anything.

[Anonymous]

[Asker]

Thank you

[LaraTara]

Its worth it when you find love. Go for women who also put effort in you! Than it shouldn't just be you “pursuing”.