Are women worth the effort?

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I've dated several women who wanted something more from me. They wanted to be exclusive and they wanted me to post pictures of us together on facebook and stuff like that but I've just never wanted to do that. I'm happy having sex with women but I don't think that I want a relationship. Women just don't seem worth the effort to be honest. Most women seem to cheat and lie and they are selfish and expect so much from men. What do women offer in return that I can't get from one night stands? Like, is it really worth investing time and effort into a relationship? To me, women just doesn't seem worth it. But then again I've only had sex with women, I've never actually been in a relationship, I've only seen what my friends/family have been through. So I'm not 100% sure.

depeche2015 · Accepted Answer

i know what you mean. all i ask my boyfriend is for them to let girls know we're in a relationship, not to flirt, just stay loyal to me and never cheat on me. if we have problems i want me and him to work it out and i don't want to be left behind and ignored for days. i don't like "taking breaks" if that's the case then why be in a relationship with me? facebook isn't everything unless you have a ton of girls on there and you are active than you should let girls and everyone know you're in a relationship and stop liking girls pictures or commenting just to be respectful to her feelings and her as a girlfriend. some girls are really laid back and could care less as long as you show her love and attention and don't mess around. some girls are private and rather you not telling anyone you are in a relationship. not all girls are the same.

LittleBrownGirl · Accepted Answer

Not all girls are the same. Yes, some women aren't worth the effort because all they do is cheat, and lie and no one has time for that. But there sre some women out there who care and want make things work. No relationship will be perfect there will be arguments, and fights but that shows that both partners csre for each other. The women that will be worth it, is the right women that is for you

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I just don't think some people (me included) are cut out for the stereotypical marriage.

You'd be surprised how many women don't REALLY want serious relationships and are just caving to societal pressure to look valuable by having a steady man.

I think the pressure for everyone to pretend and gain social status is what makes relationships so sketchy.

Vanjasper · Accepted Answer

I think they are worth all the effort we can make. I like women for themselves, great companions, affectionate, great communicators, a diverse way of thinking and seeing the world around them that's challenging, very practical, a well honed instinct, strong minded, idealistic. But you have to be honest and loyal to get all that.
When you see women as mere objects, base your judgement, on other people's relationships, without ever having been in one yourself, you miss out on all that is positive about women. Sure there are negatives, that's why relationships need constant work. It takes effort to bring out the best in both sides, and it's worth it.

TheBadMan · Accepted Answer

People are as valuable as you deem them.
Most people's lives are made harder by women, because many of them are confused and braining washed.
Be the warrior. Don't live your live according to what idiot women want.

GingerGuy · Answer

The right woman is worth the effort, but finding that right woman is hard. The person you truly connect with.

h3ll0 · Answer

Sounds like the women don't deserve you. So no, it's not the girls fault and she is worth the effort, just you aren't.

LolaB13 · Answer

I feel the same way about guys and no I personally don't think it's worth the effort anymore.

JubJub_Hi · Answer

I think your feeling is normal for many guy. When you find right girl your feeling will change. Please only be honest with girls :)

Caaarl · Answer

If they're extremely hard to deal with then that person isn't worth the effort.

MijailPropagandaMan · Answer

They sometimes are, they can make you incredibly happy. But beware incredible happiness means they can also make you really really sad and unhappy

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

The one's that aren't will say you aren't worth their effort. Keep a watchful eye ;)

anmari2001 · Answer

no women=>no babies=>no future=>no life

AleDeEurope · Answer

Some are, some aren't.

Anonymous · Answer

Worthless trash like you are not worth our effort.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they are worth the effort.

Midget_Hug · Answer

Honestly, no.

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