How can you tell if attraction is mutual between a guy and girl?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Usually, when there is a mutually attraction you can smell the pheromones and feel the energy in the air. Did you have this rush of lust during the date?

[Asker]

We both looked at each other and suddenly I felt this sense of endearment for her. I felt like drawn her and just started talking to her. It was also because she turned around and looked at me like she was about to say something to me. Other instances is she started making small talk with me about something she just saw. At the same time she treats me differently to everyone else, she is quieter with me. I feel she gives me brief responses when chatting, but then she initiates small talk with me. What is going on?

[Guy13]

Sounds like everything but the punctuation mark 💋

[Asker]

What do you think is going on?

[Asker]

Like why is she quieter with me and giving brief responses

[Guy13]

Shut up and lead and kiss me. She sounds like a sweet girl that is doing what she can, while fighting through her shyness, to keep the Flow going. She probably is waiting to be led by a tender-hearted and steel backbone guy.

Sometimes, girls like this are so much happier in your arms, head/eyes into your chest or pits RATHER THAN looking in the eye and talking.
If I am right, your most intimate moments of conversation with “mask off” for her, whether happy or sad, will be her eyes in your chest freely and safely expressing.
Shut up…listen…. hold constant calm energy, kiss her on top of head/hair in the silence after she’s bled emotions, Moment.

[Asker]

So you think she just likes me?

[Asker]

Like she doesn't hate me

[Poliker]

There's just this awkward energy around them when you are nearby. Like they'd prefer if you were not there so they could be alone together. This is when they are in an almost relationship. When they are in a relationship, then the energy is different. Like, two parts of a whole.

[Akam93]

For other people it's hard to tell. My crush didn't even know I liked him until I told him. He didn't think there was mutal attraction between us because he thought I wouldn't feel that way about him.

[Asker]

With the girl I like she and I have randomly gone quiet between us for no reason. She is treating me differently as oppose to other guys. She seems more confident and herself with other people. But with me she is quieter.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

It's so obvious that you can't question it. She does this that she would only do with someone she liked.

[Kevinb18222]

Let’s just say I started dating a girl I work with and I never told anyone but everyone knew. I guess they could all see the way we looked at each other.

[Asker]

This girl and I have had moments where I've looked up and she and I are staring at each other. We also have this weird quietness between us like we're avoiding each other. But then she starts small conversation with me but she still acts quiet with me. Around other guys/girls she is chatty more etc

[Vikkrram]

It's an tension between you both , you can feel it

[Asker]

Does this include both her and I been quiet between each other?

[Asker]

For no apparent reason

[Vikkrram]

Yes i would say not only being quite like suddenly being loud around you acting confidently around you , if you gave her attention she would have acted best around you you both would have eye contact. And if you would ignore her you would find ignoring you.

[Vikkrram]

Do tell me one thing buddy do you tend to have a lots of eye contact in the past if you both didn't talked?

[Asker]

The end contact happens more since we have spoken

[Asker]

We've had eye contact when she turned around and I felt drawn towards her, because I could tell she was about to say something to me

[Vikkrram]

Eye contact like if it's going from months then you both have eye contact whenever you look at each other

[Asker]

It's been going on for a while. Just noticed it's becoming from frequent

[Asker]

More**

[Vikkrram]

Ahh then I think attraction is mutual coz eye contact is one of the signs that is happening frequently

[Asker]

Then what about the fact she is quiet with me, but she is been herself towards other guys/girls?

[Vikkrram]

I would say that is coz of nervousness around you what to speak and how to speak

[Asker]

Is she just nervous cause she likes me

[Asker]

Like I haven't done or said anything to make her nervous

[Vikkrram]

Yeah that's what I think so...

[Asker]

It's just hard seeing her being herself towards other people. But acting quiet with me, makes me feel like she dislikes me. However, she'll start small talk with me which confuses me

[Vikkrram]

The best part is that to engage her in a conversation and then slowly ask her about her feelings..

[Asker]

So am I worrying about nothing

[Vikkrram]

Buddy come in my inbox send a message there i want to know all things first

[Vikkrram]

Man go and talk wid her otherwise you both would never tell your feelings to each other and would be always confused...

[melanieeeB]

You know, you can feel the energy and vibe

[Asker]

Does that include a random awkwardness. Like her been shy/avoiding me. But she is start small talk with me

[Blackcupcake]

you won’t need to question it.

[dustybiker]

Ask.