Why do men doesn't like to commit whereas women give priority to commitment? Why don't men understand the need of a girl's requirement of commitment?

[Anonymous]

[CallmeTheKnight]

What you just stated in your question is a complete lie. The availability of sex and how much women continue to play games, use men, and accept things from men they have no interest in... Let alone the rise of infidelity and single mothers.

Why would men be encouraged to commit to someone who doesn't want commitment?
Why should men commit to women who played and use men?
Why should men commit to women who refuse to accept accountability for all of their choices? Why should they commit to someone who brings an already made family?
Why should a man commit to a woman who is not worthy of a commitment?

If women require commitment as much as you claim, then why are they acting the way they do and having premarital sex frequently and having babies by men who don't want them? There are more single mothers than women without children... You need to accept that. The problem isn't men.. it's women who validate the wrong men and want good men to look past their wrongs and accept the baggage. That kind of woman is not worth commitment to

Men want women who is willing to commit just as much as them. A woman who will let him lead rather than argue and live for "Online in-laws". A woman who loves and respects herself.

[Anonymous]

What you're asking here is "why are men not more like women?".

We could ask the same... why are women not more like men?

Anyway, women are the gatekeepers to sex and men are the gatekeepers to relationships / marriage. The answer to your question lies in that statement. There is a lot of rhetoric out there about men allegedly benefitting more from marriage than women, but men know it's false rhetoric. We stand to lose A LOT in marriage, so we are obviously wise to not commit to most of today's women.

In short, it's not that we don't understand your needs, we just have to put our own needs ahead of yours. We have to look out for our own needs, because most of today's women won't.

[LazerBean]

Because women reward their bad behavior, have children with those men with bad behavior, thus feeding a cycle that produces more and more of the same type of low quality men.

[Anonymous]

There's a theory that it's an evolutionary trait. Women can only have a limited amount of children and are vulnerable during pregnancy, so they need someone to protect and provide for them and their children. This encourages commitment to a single mate.

On the other side, men have no limit on the amount of children they can have, and do not have a period of weakness. This encourages the pursuit of multiple mates.

In short, women gain a benefit from commitment, but men do not. This much is true, even if the rest of the theory is up for debate.

[inhua]

a lot of relationship breakups and divorces are initiated by women. men would commit if they know for certain their woman was going to commit too (not just for short-term but for long-term)

[Asker]

Great

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@LazerBean made a very good point. What she said it's something I've seen many women do, and my wife too tends to do it.

Not all, but many. That said, I've seen the opposite happen too. My father kept excusing my mother's awful behaviors until he couldn't take it anymore and divorced her. This is something my mother admits too, and everyone agrees.

[HighValue]

Men would happily commit to a GOOD woman. the problem is that there are VERY few actual good women. Most are immoral and have an unacceptable past.

Also, people can commit to an exclusive long term relationship WITHOUT marriage. Marriage is just a way for women and the courts to steal from men. If women didn't want to steal from men they would get the divorce/alimony/property laws changed. But they DON'T because most women ARE thieves.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most men are willing to commit, stop picking jerks and you won't have that problem anymore.

[Asker]

Jerks are really unfit for commitment

[TheSpaceGnome]

Jerks are unfit for everything.

[NamerOfStars]

If women prioritized commitment, they wouldn't initiate 70% of divorces.

[Anonymous]

Real simple. It's the guys you choose. You can't make a hooker a housewife. Why would you think you can make a player a good man. 🙄🤣

[Asker]

Agreed 😂

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Because most women are not worth committing to.

[FilmGuy93]

It’s not that we don’t understand, it’s that we don’t value the commitment to the same degree.

[Chill_Meta]

It's because men aren't usually on the same time constraints that women are when it comes to biology.

[msc545]

It is because men have better grammar than women.

[Truthatanycost]

I only commit to my life purpose.