How to tell my escort I no longer want to be her client?

[Anonymous]

We went on three dates so far and things went well. Had dinner and walks on all three of them and she said that for the fourth date we could get a hotel room.

Asked her for feedback and she said she found me polite, clean and would like to have me as a regular; however she criticized the fact that I once brought more money than her exact fee, because she said that when she makes a price it's that, not more and not less, and also that I when she makes me a compliment I say it's not true and that she's saying it just because she's paid to.

Because of this, I no longer feel comfortable with her and have already cancelled our next date. Now she's asking me what happened and if she has to get the agency involved.

Should I tell her or fill a complain? I don't want her to contact me ever again.

Updates

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Her last message was
"I'm regretful and a bit disappointed you don't feel it's a good match when I was looking to give you more bookings. We can rearrange and have another dinner date if you don't feel comfortable for a full date. Please let me know and I'll put you in my schedule."

Updates

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Update
I blocked her number but did not file a complaint and instead left a positive (but not gushing) review. The agency let me know she's still willing to take me back as a client and in the mean time I can always book with another provider.
Thank you everyone for your answers.

[watercolor_lions]

It sounds like you're thinking about this WAY more critically than she is. Tell her you're not interested in her, the agency will not change your mind, and block her number.

Don't make this a boyfriend/girlfriend break up. Just cut it off. It's business.

[Asker]

I agree that it's business and that's why I was thinking of filing a complaint with her agency since she made me feel uncomfortable.

[watercolor_lions]

Don't be petty. You never know if she's the kind of escort that will get beaten or not. Just let it go. She might be right and you're just taking offense to it.

[Asker]

I blocked her but left a positive (but not gushing) review. The agency let me know she's still willing to take me back as a client and in the mean time I can always book with another provider.
They've sent me other profiles but I have not contacted anyone yet.

[lightbulb27]

This is really a mess and mis communication.

Fundamentally, sounds like you distrust her because what she says isn't true. Ok fine.

I think you should be more the man and simply communicate like you would in a business... cordially, Professionally, clearly. blocking is poor communication.

something is not going well with you though, by the nature of this and the dialog...

Seek a wise counselor, heal the heart...

[DaveJord]

There is nothing more for you to say to her... so don't stress it. Block her and be done with it.

[Surely]

Seems like she took the job seriously. I think that you are missing the point of an escort. Don’t make waves for her. Just politely tell her that you are not interested anymore and let it at that.

[Asker]

So I shouldn't file a complaint for her making me feel uncomfortable?

[Surely]

Definitely Not! You made yourself uncomfortable. She is an escort and not marriage material. Unless you are thinking that. Just request another and let it go at that!

[JustinTheGreat]

Just ghost her bro. She’s not gonna have her feelings hurt, it’s just business.

[Asker]

Actually her agency blacklists ghosters

[JustinTheGreat]

Oh, well csnt you contact the agency and request a different escort?
hate to break it to you though, but every woman with that agency probably feels the same way. They’re only going out and being nice to you cause it’s their job. It’s a little weird that she would say it out loud bc I feel like it kills the fantasy that she’s selling, but I doubt any of the nice things an escort says to you are actually genuine.

[Asker]

I don't like how she said I need to learn to accept compliments. She said that if she didn't like me as a client she wouldn't have more dates with me, but now I decided I don't like her.
Should I file a complaint and tell her?

[JustinTheGreat]

I wouldn’t go as far to file a complaint

[Asker]

Why not?
She made me uncomfortable, especially when she asked for explanations

[joeldalton]

It’s not a marriage, that’s the whole point of escorts. Just tell her you’re done and that’s the end of it.

[Asker]

Should I file a complain with her agency?

[joeldalton]

No, block and move on.

[Mangospacho]

Call the number on the back of the credit card you used to pay for the escort and ask them to block all charges from that specific escort service. If that doesn’t work, find the escort agency on Google maps and then give them a one star rating saying that the escort did not give good service.

[tfan1]

She sounds like a female dog who wants Burger King.

(She sounds like a bitch who wants it her way)

[Anonymous]

Just tell the agency that you no longer need to use an escort and that’s it

[Asker]

I'd like to date another though.
Not this one

[Opinion Owner]

You can tell them that also, it’s all business to them

[Opinion Owner]

Regarding your update, she just doesn’t want to lose you as a regular paying customer

[Asker]

Alright but I want to lose her. She talks too much.

[robocop666]

you dont you simply find another one. WHy do you need to tell her? you only see her when you pay her yeah?

[Asker]

She wanted to make me a regular

[robocop666]

you only become a regular if you choose to be. Just call another and dont tell her. When I see a new person about my back I dont tell my last massage therapist.

[Anonymous]

Lol she's a hoe! You don't need to break up with a hoe.

[slatyb]

You don't call her again.

[Anonymous]

Tell her that you are broke or lost your job.

[Alperengin11]

say it