Does it usually take time for your feelings for someone to develop or is it something you feel right away?

[Still-alive]

I usually get infatuated first then develop real genuine feelings... unless that person is extra special that is.

It usually takes time for my feelings for someone to develop

I usually feel it immediately upon meeting them

[letuswaltzforthedead]

No, I don't consider finding someone physically attractive the same as having a crush. I find many people physically attractive but I couldn't care less what happens to them. I usually try to befriend people first and then I develop a crush or not.

[petitedollbabee]

I can develop a crush straight away, but true romantic feelings develop over time. That time frame varies from person to person. For most of my exes it took me months to develop those feelings, but with my current partner it only took a few days.

[SnowedIn]

I like how you phrased it. Typically, I'll have some sort of infatuation/crush and that will either mature into strong feelings that can last, or I realize it's just a crush.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It usually takes time for my feelings for someone to develop.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[menina]

It usually takes time. First, I feel attracted to the person and then after seeing them more times and getting to know them I start developing feelings.

[Ninania]

I usually fall hard and fast, but real love builds slowly the more I get to know them.
I'm very susceptible to love bombing, so I'm making a habit out of slowing down and getting several second opinions before trusting someone new.

[AsaKyo]

It takes time for me to develop feelings for someone

Cannot fall for a person from the get-go lmao

[soe11]

Obviously take time developed can not be overnight.

[llorando]

I usually feel it immediately upon meeting them.

[Twalli]

I feel sexual attraction on seeing someone, but I don't develop feelings until far later.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I need to know them at least somethingwhat so yes it takes time.

[fonduegirl]

I immediately feel it

[YourFavoriteFriend]

For me, it's just like it is for you!

[melanieeeB]

Same as you