Why men don’t want meet family and scared of meeting a girls family? My parents have never met a boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

i notice men don’t want meet family never. This guy I date 2 years we do everything as couple but we don’t meet family. He lives with mom & little sister and her boyfriend and 3 kids. I go on dating app and all men tell me they don’t want a girlfriend just sex when clearly they don’t read my bio I write I want meet family, everyone in my family has a boyfriend that shows up next to girlfriend on chritmas faces her family happy. I’ll be 26 next year & I think my parents will never meet any guy. No guy wants sit next to me proud meeting my mom and dad. 😞 I do everything a wife does except I have no man clingy following me daily living together in same house. I’m too skinny and ugly. Im same height of a 10 year old. I think my destiny is be miserable alone never have a happy life with a man.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

It's kind of scary for me. I remember the first time I met my wife's family and I was terrified. Turned out to be a false alarm because they were the nicest people I ever met. I love her cute little dad and mom. But I was really scared the first time meeting them after venturing across the airplane and asking for my wife's hand in marriage.

[Sugar100]

But meeting parents doesn’t mean u will marry wtf lol it’s jsut the rules if u hav a boyfriend u need meet her mom that’s it. I don’t want marry

[Sugar100]

Meeting parents doesn’t mean u r asking to alert girl wtf r u talking of?

[Sugar100]

Meeting parents even teenagers do , all u do is meet gfs family that’s it then continue dating her and not marry lol

[ZXCwWRQWz]

In our case, we lived so far away from our family. My (now) wife lived in Tokyo and me too and my family was mostly in Shizuoka and the US, so far away from Tokyo. And her family was in Kyushu on the southern tip of Japan, so far from Tokyo.

[Sugar100]

Your point is?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I wanted to show at least even though I missed your specific case of how it can be scary to ride airplane and meet parents of our lovers.

[Sugar100]

My question was y men don’t want meet family? I think it don’t exist for a guy meet ur mom and dad. I guess is the new normal life for girls 2022 u don’t meet family never

[ZXCwWRQWz]

For me at least, it was scary! I was worried father and mother will find me unworthy to date their daughter.

[Sugar100]

Maybe girls meet family til after u marry guy. Some Girls get married fast at age 20 which might be y they meet family? Since I’ll never get married then no guy will meet my mom n dad

[Sugar100]

I think men no longer meet gfs family I think men only meet wife’s family til they marry

[Sugar100]

I guess that’s the new trend nos

[ZXCwWRQWz]

For me with the distance, the main motivation I had to meet my wife's family was to marry her. I wanted their blessing.

[Sugar100]

So I guess men only meet girls family after they get married. Cuz my boyfriend told me we aren’t married at well meet family if we aren’t married?

[Sugar100]

So I guess men don’t meet gfs parents anymore now men date girlfriend without meeting family and only meet family til after marriage

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I like the concept of meeting sooner if isn't too inconvenient. In our case, our family lived so far away. So it was very difficult and expensive to visit them and we both had to take time off of work.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I might be bad for this question. Both my wife and I moved out at early age, around uni time, and made life for ourselves so far away from our family. So the thought of visiting family wasn't such an everyday thought. We would have to take an airplane to visit them. I am used to an urban lifestyle where we are usually not originally from the area in which we work. It's so far away to get back home.

[slatyb]

Because he doesn't want to be a part of your family.

[Sugar100]

But y all girls meet family there’s no such thing as a girl never meeting family

[Sugar100]

Y 100 men on dating apps all don’t want a girlfriend and they don’t want meet family?

[Sugar100]

Y no guy wants meet family?

[rienna888]

umm I don’t think you’re ugly just focus more on yourself. Make yourself beautiful, you probably already are. But fix whatever you don’t like. Find your own style, wear more black.

[LazerBean]

Only men who were poorly raised and are only out for sex, and more than likely had no Father figure in their life growing up are like that.

[Guy13]

That likely means the guy is not serious about consummating relationship.

[Sugar100]

Everyone on dating app wants sex only no one wants. girlfriend

[Sugar100]

At least boyfriend dates me dating is a relationship but the men on the app just want sex no dates just sex

[Sugar100]

I don’t want marry I just want meet family I don't know y men run away from meeting family it don’t exist for a guy wanting meet ur mom

[Guy13]

NOOoooo. I am not getting married. Family meet equals marriage to a guy.

[Sugar100]

To me I thought meeting parents meant u r just showing off ur girlfriend that’s it. I had no idea it meant u will get married

[Guy13]

No, it means you are serious about this woman. Introducing to Mom is a serious thing for potential spouse consideration.

[Sugar100]

I’m never going to get married so that means my mom will never meet any boyfriend never 😞

[Sugar100]

I’m cofnsudd cuz even teenagers meet girls parents and then they break up it doesn’t mean u will marry the girl. Meeting parents jsut means u will r showing ur girlfriend that’s it

[Guy13]

Don't be so negative... easier said than done but try not to be.

[Guy13]

That is lots of commitment. Cause it means WIFEY MATERIAL

[Sugar100]

That’s stupid. I cook clean pay rent live alone do laundry I do everything like a single mom. Ik one couple has baby met parents but they ain’t married 3 years later. 🙄 they ain’t having no wedding anytime soon. She don’t cook either only the guy cooks for her LOL

[Sugar100]

I do everything a wife does.

[Guy13]

But without a ring, right?

[front2back]

That's a 🚩
I'd get after only a couple months but after several to a year he should be wanting to show you around.

[Sugar100]

I talked to 100 men on dating apps and they all said they don’t want a girlfriend they want sex only

[Sugar100]

I think I’ll be old alone forever n. No guy will want meet my mom and I’ll have no future 😞

[Sugar100]

The more men I talk to on dating app they more say they don’t want a girlfriend only hookup

[Sugar100]

My life will be just be alone do nothing depresed in bed rest of my life. I’ll never have a partner 😞no guys want meet family or don’t exist for a guy want meet ur mom

[front2back]

Dating apps are terrible.

[front2back]

Much better to meet in real life.

[Sugar100]

That’s not true I go to the store and daily all men r with baby and girl. Guys already have. A girl and babies

[Sugar100]

I’ve never in my entire life met a guy that wants a girlfriend all men tell me they don’t want a girlfriend only hookup I think it don’t exist for a guy meet ur family

[front2back]

You must live in a terrible area

[exitseven]

I never liked meeting girls parents. One girl's father was about 6foot four and huge. Truly a scary dude.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm never scared of anyone's dad. I have nothing to fear, because I am not touching their daughter.

[exitseven]

@Jamie05rhs truly I had the best of intentions toward this guys daughter but he still made me nervous.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Because when you meet that family that means it's serious

[Sugar100]

So no guy will ever meet my family then 😓

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why do you say that? If a guy is serious about being with you he'll want to meet you family

[Sugar100]

But I can’t find any guy that wants meet family. Even on dating app 100 men tell me they don’t want meet family

[Sugar100]

I’ll be old n my mom
Will never meet any guy 😓

[Sugar100]

I can’t even celebrate holidays cuz I have no guy celebrate with me take me to his moms house for the Christmas party

[joeldalton]

He’s a child in a grown-up body, not a man.

[Sugar100]

Like 100 men on the app don’t want a girlfriend they just want sex. I guess it don’t exist for men to meet parents?

[Sugar100]

My boyfriend and I date but the men on the app only want sex. I think it just don’t exist for men to meet family? I think men only meet family til after marriage?

[joeldalton]

Because women have embraced hookup culture. Why put effort into it?

[Sugar100]

I had delete the app as no guy on the app wants meet parnets just sex

[Sugar100]

I guess it’s normal now for men not meet family? Cuz no guy on the dating app wants meet my mom?

[joeldalton]

I feel bad for your generation.

[Sugar100]

I talk to 100 guys on dating app and they don’t want meet my mom

[Preeti161101]

It depends on you