Why men don’t want to meet parents?

[Sugar100]

It’s the rule when you have a girlfriend you meet her family and his. I’ll be 26 and never have met a guy that wants meet my mom. Everyone run away scared like they’ll die. And I see all girls easily get new boyfriend like nothing and they all fast meet her family happily proud. In fact everyone in my family is married and all their bfs met her parents & the bfs are all happy 😃. You date 6 months then meet parents. No guy wants meet parents.

[glennos89]

Because guys know they will be examined thoroughly before getting anywhere near accepted. Girls are usually accepted a lot easier by the guys parents. But that isn't often the case the other way arround and it can be very comfortable when a girl has strict parents and because girls tend to listen a lot more to their parents opinion it can be a little bit scary to meet parents.

When my girl meets my parents, I expect my parents to stay out of my personal choice for whatever woman I take home. i dont care wether my parents like her or are doubting... they better not say anything when they aren't agreeing with my choice of woman because then I will make very clear that it my choice and they accept it or lose me as a child because I will choose for girl when shit hits the fan and drop my parents anytime and everytime. They better not make my girls life difficult when we are visiting👿

My parents know that I decide and they accept, I made it very clear in the past. I dont listen to their comments or worries. I dont give a shit what their opinion is to be honest. Its my life not theirs.

But woman seem to be listening a lot better when their parents give their opinion about the guy she brings home. Especially when her father starts speaking. I know very few girls who will stand up and overule against their fathers opinion. They seem to be complying most of times even when they dont like it what dad says

Thats at least how I experienced it so far

[Sugar100]

No guy wants give me experience how it’s like to meet a guys parents. I’ll be 30 and continue saying I’ve never met a guys family and it’ll look bad.

[Sugar100]

On dating apps all men only want sex no girlfriend. Only guy I dated was my boyfriend but we never met family.

[Sugar100]

I’m
Guna be a 30 year old with no experience as no guy wants give me experience what it’s like meet family

[glennos89]

Ooh forgive me then I didn't understand your story in the proper way. English isn't my native language so my apologies for that then.

I do have some valuable advice for you when it comes to dating men. If you follow my advice you will massively increase your chance of finding a guy that isn't in it for the sex but it also requires for you to be strong and fight your own feelings of wanting to sleep with someone!

The advice is:

Don't give a guy sex! Let him put a lot of time and energy into keeping contact with you for minimum 1 month which is kinda fast still. Let him put effort into the relationship for 2 months or 3 at most and only then reward him with sex! There is no better advice I can give you or anyone else can give you about men and how to find relationship material. The only other advice is to check your friendzone but thats probably not what you want because you didn't put them in the friendzone for no reason.

But in the friendzone you will find descend men who are most likely going to be good long term companions but if your not attracted to them you will have to date long term without any form of oral or physical sex.

That is sadly the only way to separate the fuckboys from the guys who are relationship material.
I will explain why...

A fuckboy wants to have sex and might be willing to put in some form of effort in to be able to succeed. But those guys will pretty quickly lose interest when they have to put in effort but won't get what they want in return.

On the other hand, the guy that isn't looking for sex is actually willing to put in a lot of effort because he knows it will be worth it in the end and they aren't looking to have sex within a short period of time. Ofcourse you don't want to let them wait forever because then they might lose interest aswell but the best time is to let him wait for like 1,5 - 2 months before giving him sex.

[Sugar100]

After my first date with boyfriend I didn’t have sex with him for ONE YEAR

[glennos89]

Wow thats a really long time

[glennos89]

Times have changed sadly. We now live in a time where people fuck everybody and that has become the standard which I hate to be honest. Dating has become more difficult especially is you are looking for a long term relationship

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you are only dating fuck boys that are only after one thing from you , sex , yes sex is important to most of us men, but you also have to find a man that wants you for other things as well , compatibility , respect and honesty. A guy that will wear your shoes like you wear his , a guy that makes you his priority just like you make him his , why it’s best to take things slow with someone new , I prefer FWB’s with some strings attached , meaning we only have sex together but we have breathing room to not fully commit to each other , if we end up meeting someone else and end up in bed with that someone else then you both end the benefits part and just stay friends, It’s best to really get to know someone before making the big decision of being committed to each other , most people jump into relationships thinking it’s the right thing to do without looking at the big picture , they are just infatuated with each other but sometimes they eventually realize you both don’t have much in common so the connection starts to fade and you eventually get bored of each other so FWB’s with some strings is the only way I go especially nowadays

[Sugar100]

I don't know how dating is a fuckboy. A boyfriend is someone that dates u weekly. That’s not a fuckboy.

[Sugar100]

I have neevr even dated guys as all guys on dating apps only want sex and don’t ask for dates

[Sugar100]

Only guy I dated was my boyfriend. But we still never met family.

[Finchie40]

Well it sounds like your boyfriend is afraid of commitment, usually meeting someone’s parent’s means the relationship is getting serious , so the fact that your boyfriend does t want to meet your parents is mainly because he doesn’t really want commitment he likes convenience

[kylee2437]

Men have a lot more pressures when people a woman’s parents because men typically get judged heavier. If you want a man to meet your parents - definitely make it a requirement

[Sugar100]

Yea but men run away. So I can’t have any guy meet my parents. It’s impossible find a guy that likes me back that will agree meet parents.

[Sugar100]

I can’t find a guy that wants meet parents.

[kylee2437]

Those men aren’t serious about you then.

[Sugar100]

I don’t get y girls get 100 bfs easily and they all fast meet her family. I can’t get any guy meet my parents

[Sugar100]

How do those girls get bfs so easily fast and all of them. Fast agree meet parents? How?

[Sugar100]

How the fuck women get any guy to be serious for her and meet her fucking parents?

[Sugar100]

How the fuck magically they get any guy to agree meet her parents magically everyone says yes?

[exitseven]

I never liked meeting somebody's parents. I never brought my girlfriends to meet my parents. Moat of the time they were not even aware I was in a relationship

[NathanDavis]

I've always met the parents of my every girlfriend

grandparents as well

[art84]

Cause the parents have to approve of the guy that the girl is dating and get their blessing. If I was dating I would want to eventually meet her parents after a few months of dating.

[shades777]

Meeting the parents is a big deal so you don't let just some anyone meet them

[Sugar100]

I’ve seen 15 year old meet parents

[Sugar100]

I see all girls bring EVERY SINGLE boyfriend THEY GET to meet parents

[Sugar100]

I’ve never had a guy meet my parents

[DextroShade]

If they won't meet your parents then they were never serious about you to begin with.

[Anonymous]

Some guys are intimidated by the idea of meeting parents.