Why is it so difficult to get a boyfriend and men don’t want meet family?

[Sugar100]

I don't know y I see all girls easily get any guy to meet her parents and all girls have a boyfriend and I find it so hard get a boyfriend. I’ll be 26 and unexperienced. I’ve never had a boyfriend meet my family and holidays my entire family all have bfs with them & I never had a guy attend with me and just eat talk be with me. I’ve never gone on romantic trips with a boyfriend or lived together nothing. I dated one guy and I knew him for many years. But he waste my time and never wanted meet my family or do anything serious. If I get a crush he don’t like me back. no guys wants a girlfriend. On dating apps no guys want a girlfriend they only want sex. I never encounter a man that says he wants a girlfriend.
All girls get new boyfriend and he meets family then they break up then she gets another new boyfriend and he again meets family etc.

since I was 13 I have all men rejecting me. I’m loyal kind , hardworking, I cook clean, have a job, fun, romantic. Family oriented. Is that not enough for men? Even fucking ugly girls get a perfect guy following her 24/7 and even baby.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

My last "girlfriend" wanted to introduce me to her family 2 weeks after I asked her out. I wasn't even sure I wanted to be with her yet, and she wanted to put me in front of her parents as the man who's gonna assume the role of her protector and lover.
That was way too much, way too soon.

That was just my experience and why I refused to meet her family. I feel like she's not the only girl in the world who moves too quickly with that stuff. That could be your problem, but maybe not.
Either way, never introduce a guy to your family unless you're absolutely positive that he wants to spend his life with you. Period.

[Sugar100]

I was with that guy for many years. No girl has a boyfriend and never Meets family period. u have to meet family as a boyfriend. It’s ok if u break up and neevr stay forever. But all bfs gfs need meet fmaily cuz a boyfriend is a partner. A boyfriend spends holidays with u and each others family. A boyfriend spends time with gfs family. Period.

[slatyb]

I agree with the Wizard -- it sounds like you are rushing things which will drive reasonable men away. "Period" -- so it's your way or no way? That's not going to work with most men.

[Sugar100]

@slatyb i ain’t like that girl wanting meet parents in 2 wks. I have 3 years with that guy

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@Sugar100 Yeah 3 years is crazy

[Sugar100]

That’s y I broke up with him n he won’t change he’ll continue refuse til he’s 80 years old

[slatyb]

Why? About 8 months should have been plenty.

[Sugar100]

@slatyb why what?

[slatyb]

Don't want to meet family? After how long? What are you doing to meet men? Maybe you are looking for love in all the wrong places.

[Sugar100]

At stores no guys approach me or shop with girlfriend and baby, at work lots of single men but all young and not serious type. Dating apps trash.

[Sugar100]

Don’t have any fmaily that know of single men for me either.

[Truthatanycost]

Have you ever asked yourself how any of that will benefit the guy? At the core of most guys is the desire for freedom...

[Sugar100]

All my fmaily members have boyfriend that meets family. At my families family parties or Christmas party all girls bring their boyfriend except for me I’m
Alone no one to eat talk hang out with. Even me neighbor has a new boyfriend and fast he met her mom and he visits his girlfriend at her moms house always.

[Sugar100]

Wtf is wrong with u? Meeting a girls mom just once means u can’t be free? Wtf it don’t mean if u meet her mom u will be tied in chains in jail forever 🙄🙄🙄 obvisouly u can meet a gfs family and still be free do whatever the fuck u want

[Truthatanycost]

That may be so but comparing ourselves to others is a recipe for disaster. That makes me wonder what other stuff you'd feel unhappy about simply because others have it, and you don't. When looking at freedom, I'm talking from an overall perspective.

[Sugar100]

You can do serious things with a girlfriend n still be free 🙄🙄🙄

[Truthatanycost]

Yes, but when a man has 100% freedom, or near to it. Any relationship, or 'serious things' needs to be worthy of losing some of that freedom.

[Sugar100]

wtf r u talking about ALL girls fucking meet family. Even ugly girls get bfs to meet family. I AM WORHTY of serious relationships. I’m loyal nice romantic loving I cook clean imma wife how the fuck is that not worthy?

[Sugar100]

Even fucking ugly woman get men fast racing to do serious things with her and get her pregnant

[Truthatanycost]

Do you swear a lot when talking throughout life in general or is this only online? But again, your focus on what others are doing, having etc etc is unwise.

[Sugar100]

No I don’t swear in person. I’m angry cuz u r basically saying I’m not worthy of a serious relationship.

[noohair]

Maybe you are projection some emotions that guys see as red flags. Fo you walk looking down or do you walk looking at people and meeting their eyes.

[Sugar100]

My crush walks looking down lol

[Juxtapose]

Go on a dating website and post an average picture of yourself and then wait for your inbox to get flooded.

[Hardworkingguy]

Well I think that meeting your girlfriend's family is only necessary if the relationship is going really well if not I don't see the point

[shades777]

I don't know sex could have something to do with it, maybe their just cool bundles of fun

[Sugar100]

So you get a boyfriend if u have sex? I thought guy needs ask u first to be his girlfriend then have sex?

[Sugar100]

Your not making sense

[shades777]

you can have sex a man wants to with you

[LemiaOfThunder]

It could be a sign that he doesn't get on parents or family's

[Heolurt]

Because women have killed the need or want of relationships these days

[Anonymous]

I would have been a great boyfriend if women would have given me the chance, but no. Now I am turning 29 and never even had a real girlfriend.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your just going to the wrong places to meet guys

[Sugar100]

So where’s the right place to meet guys that went gfs?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well I meet people doing every day activities like the supermarket or the gym or the mall