How to handle a grumpy boyfriend?

Anonymous
I am currently dating an Irish guy for less than a year now and on an ldr. I have been the most understanding of his attitude when it comes to being grumpy, distant, moody. I have read tons of articles about how to handle an Irish man and it helped me better understand him but recently it’s getting in my nerves, We are okay the night before, we talked, we joked, we laughed and sweet with each other but on the next day, he don’t text me, he just completely out of the radar. Usually, I don’t text him first because I am already aware of his moods so I always wait for him to text me first, we’ve talked about this before that we should at least talk in the morning and before sleeping just to catch up what’s been going on with each other’s lives but it seems he just want to disappear and I am annoyed whenever he does it. I don’t prevent him from going out, I don’t stalk him, nag him or even gets jealous coz I trust him. LDR is already exhausting and difficult that’s why I avoid fights, useless arguments, gets paranoid whatever he is doing or where his at. My only concern is him being grumpy, always shuts me down if I offer any help for him if he is in a bad mood, he just takes me forgranted. This is the first time I am so confused in a rel where in I don’t get much assurances from him but I know how Irish men are, they are not showy or vocal with their feelings. I feel he has feelings for me but not exactly sure where I stand in his life. He is dealing with stress at work, family issues, on going long divorce process but he can’t just continue to set me aside and doesn’t consider my feelings. I am constantly fighting for his attention, I know want constant communication since we are faraway that’s all. Please give me some advice on how to deal this grumpy boyfriend.
How to handle a grumpy boyfriend?
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